Is It Weird??

I've been hobbying since I was in my teens. Not because I have to, but because I like escorts and strippers. I find them fascinating. I've been a driver and even managed an incall before.

Anyway, when I was younger and single, I had all kinds of encounters--GFE, PSE, whatever. I had a lot of paid and unpaid fun with MOSTLY providers.

I took some time away from the hobby for "religious" reasons (that cost more than hobbying regularly). But now that I'm back, I don't really have the desire to have intercourse with the ladies I see. I'm all about the BBBJTC, but actual sex...I just don't even consider it when I approach a lady.

Is that weird?
Guys are all here for something different. I don't think it is weird that a guy just wants a blowjob. I just like to cuddle.
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str8.2.bbbj you're going to have to try much harder if you want to be considered weird on ECCIE
Ah...I'm starting to get that.
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Just spent the weekend with a gal who is more sensual just snuggling, melts into you, its a form of foreplay, hard to describe, and everything else was outstanding.
BBBJTC+CIM is heaven on a pair of lips.
I'm with you dude, what's brought me to the hobby is not being able to get consistent bbbjtcnqns anywhere else.

I don't find it weird at all that we are pragmatic enough to know what we want and where to consistently get it. Seems pretty rational to me...
I've been hobbying since I was in my teens. Not because I have to, but because I like escorts and strippers. I find them fascinating. I've been a driver and even managed an incall before.

Anyway, when I was younger and single, I had all kinds of encounters--GFE, PSE, whatever. I had a lot of paid and unpaid fun with MOSTLY providers.

I took some time away from the hobby for "religious" reasons (that cost more than hobbying regularly). But now that I'm back, I don't really have the desire to have intercourse with the ladies I see. I'm all about the BBBJTC, but actual sex...I just don't even consider it when I approach a lady.

Is that weird? Originally Posted by str8.2.bbbj
Nothing weird about that, we all have our own paticuar desires, ( Even companions that get us off ).

I would say that is pretty normall, you like what you like,
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I've been hobbying since I was in my teens. Not because I have to, but because I like escorts and strippers. I find them fascinating. I've been a driver and even managed an incall before.

Anyway, when I was younger and single, I had all kinds of encounters--GFE, PSE, whatever. I had a lot of paid and unpaid fun with MOSTLY providers.

I took some time away from the hobby for "religious" reasons (that cost more than hobbying regularly). But now that I'm back, I don't really have the desire to have intercourse with the ladies I see. I'm all about the BBBJTC, but actual sex...I just don't even consider it when I approach a lady.

Is that weird? Originally Posted by str8.2.bbbj
I know what you mean. To me, all the activities that lead up to or follow L3 are more enjoyable. Maybe it's having a cover on for FS or maybe it's just getting what I don't get at home.


But, what I feel "wierd" about sometimes is going to a FS provider that offers a full menu and telling her I only want 2/3 of it. It's like going to Del Friscos and getting appetizers and a hamburger and not having their steak. It feels weird, but sometimes you just want a good burger, and you want it from Del Friscos or Three Forks and not McDonalds or BK. Sure, you pay a lot more but it's awesome and totally worth it.
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One man's weird is another man's normal.
Yea, I'm with you. To be honest anything after L3 and I "feel" like I'm cheating. That's dumb, I know, considering the matter; but, I don't consider getting a hummer cheating--especially, since the SO ALWAYS wants to talk before sex.
Why can't a man just get a blowjob without having to talk for 20 minutes or have sex after?
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That is very common, a lot of guys choose to stick with a BnG. Not weird at all.
I actually like just giving a man a bj and nothing more, I even like it when he just pulls it out and keep all his clothes on. Makes it seem kinda spontaneous and sneaky!
As a rule of thumb Str8bbbjon't do anything during your tryst, that you wouldn't do in front of your wife.

Were you physically present on the day both of you exchanged vows?

Get a divorce and you then will be set free.
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I took some time away from the hobby for "religious" reasons (that cost more than hobbying regularly).
Is that weird? Originally Posted by str8.2.bbbj
Yes!! Absolutely!!!! Craziest shit I've ever heard!! Dating Mormons can be quite exhausting and expensive!!