How to have productive chats with BP girls?

So how do you find out what's on the menu, restrictions, fees if you're not supposed to talk about that shit on the phone (as some veteran mongers advise, and as some BP ads state).

Are you supposed to just agree on a meet over the phone and get information in person? Or, are most hobbyists just rolling the dice and asking about hh rates and bbbj on the phone?

(yeah I'm new can you tell?)
I never ask rates and 10 times out of 10 they say what it is, and there is nothing illegal about companionship and what happens bcd is personal choice.
pyramider's Avatar
Yeah, the DA acknowledges that defense.
Lexxxy's Avatar
I'm a good catholic girl I don't know what you're talking about, I do nothing illegal no pt or anything of the sort I'm just looking for a gentleman to keep me company that will give a Donation to reimburse me for my room and travel expenses is my answer.
Pyramider are you being sarcastic? Hard to tell in the net. Still my money's on sarcastic.

Is there anyone who's ever tested the "cash for companionship only" defense in court? Or in the squad room while the detectives decide to charge you or throw you back?
Lexxxy's Avatar
Yeah in pa and oh I know of plenty, can't leak private forum from another board but absolutely. It depends on wording and your lawyer.
cravenmorehead's Avatar
If they don't want to discuss on the phone, find somebody else.
Lexxxy's Avatar
I won't discuss anything until after screening
  • XY
  • 04-14-2013, 11:49 AM
I push my luck on some calls, others not so much......if they are a bitch or have a bad attitude to begin with, I'll just so elsewhere anyway. Usually I just ask the GOB or guys here I trust for info, read reviews, and go and have fun.
elghund's Avatar
I push my luck on some calls, others not so much......if they are a bitch or have a bad attitude to begin with, I'll just so elsewhere anyway. Usually I just ask the GOB or guys here I trust for info, read reviews, and go and have fun. Originally Posted by XY

Yeah, all of the above I agree with.

But, if you are want be in the hobby, well, you're gonna have to invest some cash to find your answers. Asking any girl on the phone if bbbj is available is a sure way to either get hung up on, get cussed out or show yourself to be such a brainless idiot that you are certain to get what you have coming to you....screwed out of your cash.

Me, if I look for a new girl, I am willing to spend the cash to meet her, assume the first session is a throw away, and see if I can develop some chemistry....if not, I move on.

I also move on when I feel the chemistry go away, which a lot of guys don't do soon enough..

Any newbies out there.....my advise is to take some time to fucking read this site, and
all the shared wisdom you can find with a little effort. Your answers are there.

If you come blasting in asking who does bbbj or greek, and if you should ask a provider that in a fucking telephone call......you certainly will get some sarcastic responses, and the ass kicking you deserve.

Use the big head newbies......and treat the girls like human beings. They have feelings too.



elg.....
JohnnyCap's Avatar
Research and intuition. I have made the same mistakes so many times it is ridiculous. But it is hard to be sure, especially if you can't kick down VP cash.

I look for ads that have the feel for a real person. Pics that aren't perfect. An ad that doesn't feel to have been written on Madison Ave. Once I make contact, if there's a nervous edge to her, how am I going to be comfortable anyway? I try to find a voice that sounds at ease with what she's doing, cause she is going to work and have fun too.

Reading the main forums, a question of legality will help. And be ready to take time shopping BP, you have to filter out 60%+ before you make a call. If you don't have that time hit the street.
BP is a total dice roll. If u ask services, u could be incriminating urself if its a sting, and she is paranoid about LE. All my discussions are where and when. If the provider doesn't suggest a value in there ad, I will ask how much for an hour or hh of their time, and usually get the answer.
DDarkness's Avatar
LFK,

You NAILED it!

DD
Not to mention that BP girls bait and switch frequently. "You said _ _ _ _ was available." "No I didn't, that's extra." Or "No, I said it was covered" or "On the second date." BP? Meh...
cowboy8055's Avatar
I never discuss activities since that's a good way to scare off many providers. If the provider mentions activities and prices over the phone I hang up. Most won't do that. I won't even ask about activities until we're both naked on the bed and groping each other. At that point you can pretty much rule out LE. I much prefer reviewed ladies since you'll already know what's on the menu. Seeing someone you nothing nothing about is always a crapshoot. They call them TOFFT's for a reason. You simply don't know what you're getting into in those cases.