Serious Inquires only..Please

I really wish to not sound Bitchy or mean.
Today I received 41 Messages not One Confirmed Appointment.
I mean guys seriously, you know that I'm a escort no Need to Put "Do you fs? "

If I post in the Short notice thread from 2-5 no need to message For a appointment @ 6 or 7!
If I created a showcase and ad with rates No need to ask me "Do I have specials and what's my rate?"

I replied to every single message and did not set one Appointment. I have Guys not willing to be screened. It's a process I thought all providers did. Could it be that I ask for to much info? Only things such as Your Name,age,race,occupation.... Nothing to serious. If your a newbie like me, (sort of)I like to email to screen for a picture or business card something verifiable.

I think this Verified Status is a little played out already. If you send me a message and all it says is What's your rates? Please read my ad or showcase. thats like a rhetorical question no? I'm not replying. A "Hello" would be awesome.
Some compliance with screening can go a long way! The more comfortable I feel with you the better our session will be. Please send References if you DO NOT have recent reviews with recent Posts.

Thanks for your interest in me but if you wish to meet please be prepared to be screened.

It must be frustrating.

I, on the other hand, am giving a friend of yours 'fits' so to speak trying to verify me as all but one of my previous 'dates' have moved or left the business.

Luckily there is one lady willing to provide a vouch for an appointment some 18 mos ago. You can bet if our schedules ever align she will receive my patronage once again.

Short&&Sweet stick to your rules and stay safe. A safe provider makes for a safe hobbyist.

Short&&Sweet baby

unfortunately this is part of the biz as you know. But you are correct in feeling that it has been happening more and more. Not knocking the men to far down but most do need to learn how to read. You need to stick to what you are comfortable and safe with when it comes to screening. I dont understand how some of these men can come on here scrolling looking for someone and expect us to see them within an hour, that and not wanting to answer a few simple questions...AND THEN GET UPSET when you refuse to see them cause they wont even give you a name. geez. I am feel with ya babe as I am sure other girls will be also.
I dont know what else to say that will help.. the issue will always be there. And it is shame when you know what they are missing out on.lol.
anyways babe.. chin up and hope today will be better for ya.
licks and kisses

Very true on hobbyist side as well, too often I will post specific time frames that I can play and get responses about times I cannot. Or get responses that never respond again. I have an unconfirmed sent pm right now that I sent 3 weeks ago. I guess that provider is off my list LOL,

nerdy...it seems like we (men and women) need to more considerate to each other. that is for sure. sign of the times i guess. 3 weeks and no response? wow! her loss huh?
licks and kisses

It was a reply to her PM as well, LOL. I do believe she was involved in some provider/ provider drama and went UTR, but an unanswered message drives me nuts!

Yeah I'd love to see you but with my schedule I don't bother sending out requests unless I know for sure I can play.

Any ways keep your spirits up. I'm sure there's plenty of fine gents you'll meet. And screen screen screen. I feel safer when a provider wants some verification instead of just my word. Just like I'll do my screening on the provider do likewise to me.

Welcome to the jungle. It's sometimes hard separating the signal from the noise. Have you considered p411?

it goes both ways... i've made the hour or so roundtrip drive just to be stood up, unanswered pms, messages back several days after the date I was requesting, asking different rates than in the showcase (not the reviews, the actual showcase), been rushed, etc, etc, etc...

It's just part of the game... If we're going to play the game then we just have to deal with it, both sides.

it goes both ways... i've made the hour or so roundtrip drive just to be stood up, unanswered pms, messages back several days after the date I was requesting, asking different rates than in the showcase (not the reviews, the actual showcase), been rushed, etc, etc, etc...

It's just part of the game... If we're going to play the game then we just have to deal with it, both sides. Originally Posted by dbeartx

Damn that's terrible!!

I would advise you NOT to answer any text/call that says something like "Are you fs?" That's what reviews and referals are for.

As to the lack of appointments, it could be your screening. Yes, we all accept the reality/need for screening. There are various degrees of screening. Most guys just give first name, handle, and references. They would not be comfortable giving a full name, picture, or business card. But if they are a newbie without refs, they will have to understand they need to work with you and perhaps be more willing to give up what info makes you comfortable. It's a difficult dance we do in this underworld.

Still, 41 messages - if you mean 41 different guys - that is a LOT of inquiries to not turn up a single appointment. Ouch!

Short&&Sweet stick to your rules and stay safe. A safe provider makes for a safe hobbyist. Originally Posted by Doglegg

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