In reality, I CAN show "Love" to my gents. LOTS OF LOVE...BUT HOW DO YOU? ;)

Even though the hobby is a NSA, see ya when I see ya, thanks and have a great day kinda biz....gotta admit, LATELY, all I've been shown is EL OH VEE from my gents. Not only thanks, BUT I was wondering, WHAT is YOUR way of showing your hostess some "love?" BESIDES THE OBVIOUS

When you tip, is it easier and just part of the biz to throw down an extra few 20's. OR are you a Gent who takes their time and picks out their/our fave chocolates, lingerie, champagne, flowers, perfumes, ect...

Just something I've been wondering as lately it seems MORE and MORE of you guys are "paying attention" Thanks! XoXo
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I once bought chocolates and a stuffed animal for a provider per her request. I got to her incall and she put it with I giant pile of chocolates and stuffed animals, and it made me wonder just how many hobbyists she had seen before me that day.
Usually, a gift card with a verbal thanks for her companionship. I can be very courtly-ish as the situation allows. As familiarity grows I tend to want to talk and connect more as part of the session. Also, I like to think I show my high regard in the way I kiss and the special way I go down on a lady.
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Let's not overlook attitude--not simply respect and courtesy, but an obvious desire to please your play partner by trying to find out what she likes, fantasizes about, and desires.
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  • savak
  • 04-19-2013, 10:49 PM
alcohol...

i mean wine, if a provider likes wine, makes that known on her showcase, and I think she's a kickass chick, I'll bring a bottle of wine suited to her tastes.

or some sushi or strawberries for us to share.... I mean for me to eat off of her body.
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I agree with all of the above. I read their profile and see likes and dislikes..
Try to have their favorite beverage.
My seperate bath has fresh towels, bath soaps tooth brush and paste.
Fiji Water and a snack on the way out
Plus a tip
Mmmmm, these are alllll wonderful "tips." Good examples of what I mean when I'm talking about REAL gentlemen... Keep being sweet. It's very much appreciated and WE DO enjoy being treated to the "cliche" of flowers and candy BUT...wine an teddys, gift cards and sushi, all sound amazing as well....yum Ya'll have yourselves a wonderful night...maybe we'll share some chocolate laced kisses and a bottle of fine wine soon. Xoxo ~Arriana~
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I prefer giving a functional gitft.
I shave my balls and taint area and slap on a small amount of after shave for her pleasure.
No one likes to look at poorly maintained chia pet.
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I read the provider's profile and pick something of their list.
Cyranose69 grow up!
A chia pet made of taint hair?
I prefer giving a functional gitft.
I shave my balls and taint area and slap on a small amount of after shave for her pleasure.
No one likes to look at poorly maintained chia pet. Originally Posted by cyranose69


What? I thought it was funny.

O_o Uhhhm, thank u? I think. Lol. WHILE that is a very "nice gesture", I would expect good hygiene to be a GIVEN, not a gift...lol, BUT, everyone is different...and if a "chia pet made of taint hair" is your "gift" to the provider, I really hope she never pisses you off as she might end up with a Pubic hair hedge fence compliments of Cyra :P hahaha... all in all, whether its a box of our fave chocolates or a pair of sexy garters, its the thought and its really appreciated...little things like that give us something to rem you by besides "a good time" as cheezy as it sounds. It makes a BIG difference, esp to a provider that might be havin a crummy day! Goooood morning all <3
LMFAO!
I think only ladies that are too polite to turn it away would even accept it.
And he probably doesn't ever get to come back.