Having been in the hobby for a few months only, I am still amazed at the quality of providers I have met. Literally all of them were really nice girls/women - smart, great personalities. All really interesting in their own way, the kind of person you can have a conversation with, the kind you could show off at a party (if I were 30 years younger) or be friends with. They all smelled good, tasted good, took exceptional care of their bodies and treated me really nicely. I felt like a king with all of them. All I can say to describe them is that they are really classy women.
For a lot of providers things must be tough, having kids, relatives, nosy neighbors, maybe abusive clients/boyfriend/pimps. Constantly having to be on the guard because of the legal situation. Having financial problems (one provider somewhere in the forum traded her services for urgent dental work). Being subject to violence (one provider reported just a few days ago in this forum that she was attacked). I don’t know how they are doing it, but they are doing it gracefully. They have my respect and admiration.
Maybe my expectations were low to begin with. I had some spotty experiences in Europe, where I met either real hard nosed “professionals” (upsell here and there, “I don’t do this and that”) or eastern European immigrants who spoke not a word of a language that I would speak (OK, not their fault, but it leaves the experience a little cold if you cannot talk at all). My other experience was in a popular Caribbean sex vacation destination. The girls are knockout cuties but you can tell they don’t really like what they are doing, they have to do this to survive. That leaves you with a sad feeling.
Anyway, this is to say “Thank You” to all the providers I have met so far. It makes me think I should have gotten my divorce a long time ago and should have just spent my money on “providers” (that description really doesn’t fit, “temporary friends with a kink” would be better). I am not sure whether I will ever be satisfied again with a “regular” BJ after the ones I have been given in the last few months. They were in a different class altogether from what I had known before.
I should also thank all the hobbyists who write descriptive reviews which really helps choosing your next “2-hour sex fantasy vacation” (really more than 2 hours if you count the days leading up to the event, when I keep getting boners as my imagination runs wild of what is going to happen).