Why guys see escorts

textodd11's Avatar
OK, in order to settle a disagreement between a buddy and I and a significant percentage of our members are in a relationship of one kind or another, I'm going to post a question to the group that has been asked before but I don't know if a poll has been done. So here goes:

For guys with Significant Others/Wives and in a monogomous relationship, which of the following is the main reason that you choose to see escorts?

P.S. Guys- this is an anonymous poll unless you wish to post below.
tubeman's Avatar
Other for me, I actually love having sex with my wife. In fact we have great sex together, but I've always had a wondering eye and I just love a variety of women. So rather than play the field and get caught up in some love triangle nightmare I'll venture out and see a provider.
I have no SO, and the reason for me is it eliminates the bullshit we call courting. I am sick and tired of the stupid relationship games that permeates the atmosphere of the so-called "normal" courting and relationship.
Put me in line with Playansa. It would be great to have a relationship with someone, but so far, that has not been in the cards. If it happens, I will re-evaluate.
jr4u's Avatar
  • jr4u
  • 07-16-2010, 10:37 AM
Well, I don't want any serious strings. I do like some gfe without the drama, but my wants and desires are hard to find.
textodd11's Avatar
Unless I'm mistaken, so far, the replies of "Other" actually seem to fall into the "wanting some strange" (that's variety of women) or "other acts" (wants and desires are hard to find).

Guess I didn't write the question well enough. (limits on poll answers to 100 characters made it tough)

Also, the poll was really for guys that DO have an SO although hearing all replies is nice too.
SAKnight1982's Avatar
I have an "SO" of 10 years and I do enjoy having sex with her, but I am bored of giving her "hers" and am just spoiled of just getting "mine." To me and this is just my opinion. love and sex are 2 different things. My mind can love just 1 woman, but my penis can love more than just that lol Also...I do love being in the presence of beautiful big breasted woman that wants to F me with no strings attached
an me to the line with playansa and jr4u.
Well, I don't want any serious strings. I do like some gfe without the drama, but my wants and desires are hard to find. Originally Posted by jr4u
my wife was in a car wreck and gave me the thumbes up as she was unable to copulate , but now she has changed her mind and i am unable to go back , / i get bored , 15 years gets boring , i love her but when with her am bored and i don't want any drama as that would get old too
im with playa. what do they say iI DONT PAY HER TO FUCK I PAY HER TO LEAVE!!!!
SpursFan's Avatar
What latinalover said!

SF
Bobave's Avatar
I like women and I love sex. I'm divorced and not sure that I want to play the marriage game again. I gave up categorizing people more than a few years back, so to me, a provider is a woman who chooses to see me for her own reasons. Her reasons and mine are pretty well defined, so we're both happy...
podcastfan's Avatar
I am a young dude, I have shitty luck with Women. I am a nice that guy that always gets treated like shit. I end up with emotional and psychical blue balls. I am a human male, I want, need, really like sex. I can get it without being treated like shit. It's the simplest decision ever. I want to have sex and I have money, Women can provide me with sex and hopefully enjoy it too and want money.

Everything in life is business.
I have no significant other and no females are willing to fuck me for free because I am repulsive
I'm single...I see providers so that I don't have to deal with all the "extra baggage" of a significant other...that simple