Why Don't The Ladies In KC Provide A Reference?

I moved here from MN a little over a year ago. I've seen a few ladies and they always wanted references. I fully understand the need for this and always supply them. But when the time come for the ladies to provide one they seen to forget who I am or don't provide one at all. I know that I will get flamed as it all me and that I'm bad person. But let me tell you that the ladies I send as references have seen me or than one time. In fact one has seen me 5 or 6 times and that the one that doesn't remember me.

In the past 3 months I've tried to setup meetings with 3 ladies that I've never meet before, I always sent a little note about myself, references, and full contact info. I don't use vulgarity or make any rude comments. All three of these meeting have been turned down due to lack of references (Using KC Ladies Only) and because I don't write reviews. The references I send are ladies I've seen more than once. As far as reviews go, I don't write them for multiply reasons. This was never a problem in MN and in fact I've used a few ladies from there to setup meetings with visitors to KC and they never have a problem verifying me.

Sorry for the rant, but this starting to get frustrating.

Maybe you have a generic face and look like no one and everyone at the same time. Next time you have a date wear a cow bell around your neck and when the next one calls for references have them ask if they've seen the cow bell guy. Hope that at least alleviates your frustration. :-)

I always ask for something to jog their memory... Bright red hair, tattoos, piercings, sweet car, odd conversation topics, etc... Also, I ask when and where they last saw the provider. If she can recall these things, it can help. This is what writing "dreams and fantasies" in the reviews will help with. P411 will also help.

Remember... It's all FICTIONAL anyhow, yes?

Good luck and happy hunting!

XoXo

Makayla

I always ask for something to jog their memory... Bright red hair, tattoos, piercings, sweet car, odd conversation topics, etc... Also, I ask when and where they last saw the provider. If she can recall these things, it can help. This is what writing "dreams and fantasies" in the reviews will help with. P411 will also help.

Remember... It's all FICTIONAL anyhow, yes?

Good luck and happy hunting!

XoXo

Makayla Originally Posted by Makayla of Missouri

ditto----good luck baby...you will find the fun!

I asked a provider from another town if she traveled to K.C. she said no as the providers in K.C. would not reference .

How weird. I rarely have problems getting a response. This week alone I've given 4 references. I always get a kick out of all inclusive generalizations.

How weird. I rarely have problems getting a response. This week alone I've given 4 references. I always get a kick out of all inclusive generalizations. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

This is one of the reasons your a fav. I do not agree with the
inclusive generalizations stated in the above post.
To not be known by a provider who you have seen 6 times?

This is one of the reasons your a fav. I do not agree with the
inclusive generalizations stated in the above post.
To not be known by a provider who you have seen 6 times? Originally Posted by big country

Yes I have to admit, not remembering someone after seeing them 5 or 6 times is, well, that's pretty bad.

Now, who were you again?? Hehe

join p411 and stick with the p411 girls as they are the best....

Just keep trying honey it will work out!

I'd go with the cow bell idea....

I always answer reference requests sent to my e-mail or through this site. I have guys still using me as a reference from 5 yrs ago which is kind of weird. I always tell the ladies that contact me if it's an old reference. It's a safety issue.

I always give references too. Ps ladies if you contact me for a reference and I dont answer, please dont leave a voice mail because I am horrible about checking them. I only check my voicemails about once a week. Best way to contact me for references is though eccie or though an email

How weird. I rarely have problems getting a response. This week alone I've given 4 references. I always get a kick out of all inclusive generalizations. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

same here, then again people don't always use me when they have seen me because the discretion involved

You can email me.. I have a few regular friends that I know up there.