proper etiquette

Is there proper etiquette when it comes to contacting a BP provided not reviewed. As far establishing some proof she is what she advertises?

And once you meet if she is not as she presents herself on the add for leaving the scene.

I have had 4 misfires and walked away so far with no harsh feeling on all but one and no cash out of pocket.

Not in it just to get off or taking TOFTT especially if she does not look anything like her pictures.

I only had one girl say she is not the girl in the pictures on her add and she just aked my if I wanted it or not without any other picture . Since then I have not seen another add from her.

It just seems there is alot of time and engery going into something that does not pan out.

Hence the need for the list.

Like the mods have said, do you research! Also, I agree and disagree with the list. The list would be great but this is a public forum, so with prying eyes, you are putting all of your eggs in the same basket.

OP...not meaning to change topic..but along the same lines of "proper etiquette" What is the proper etiquette of asking ladies to be prepared "visually" upon arrival....2 of 3 encounters have been sweat pants and tshirt....is this something to include in the phone call or just something that first time around to deal with? Providers..your inputs are appreciated

Well, I live in a gated apt complex, meaning I have to come outside to the gate to let you in. Anyone coming to see me knows this. So, I tell them up front I'll be in jeans and a blouse/tshirt etc. So far, no one has complained. I always have on something sexy underneath....and if you want the lingerie, I can put that on once we are back inside. Also, I have seen so many of my "friends" so many times, they don't much care if I'm all dolled up and some tell me they don't care if I'm in my nightgown with no makeup. I've seen a few fresh out of the shower, wet hair and all, lol. I know you guys are visual animals, so if you prefer a girl all done up in the sexy stuff, you should tell her upfront that's what you prefer. I know we all try to do our best to make this a pleasurable experience for you.

Just my 2c worth!

Thanks thirdchild! Appreciate your comment and value it because I've been told so many times that you are the living legend!

While makeup and lingerie helps, it's all coming off eventually. It may cause for a half-a-point deduction but it's not necessarily a deal-breaker

OP...not meaning to change topic..but along the same lines of "proper etiquette" What is the proper etiquette of asking ladies to be prepared "visually" upon arrival....2 of 3 encounters have been sweat pants and tshirt....is this something to include in the phone call or just something that first time around to deal with? Providers..your inputs are appreciated Originally Posted by Lbkbrady

Couldn't hurt to ask the girl if you can make a request, then give her an idea of what you'd like. I'm willing to bet just about every provider on here will happily oblige if the request is within reason and given enough time before the date.

ain't that what I said..? lol