just wondering,

Ok, got some just wondering stuff, so I am going to put it out here for discussion,

1 how many of you married guys have used your house to see a provider, sugarbaby, or girl firend?

2 how many of you have intentionally introduced one to your wife and introduced her as a friend, co worker, friends daughter etc?

3 How many have ever had a provider, sugarbaby or girlfriend invite you to a family gathering and introduced you to her parents, brothers, family members,etc.?

well as you probably can guess I have done all of the above, and I would not do it with everyone I have seen, but have done 1 & 2 several times, and 3 only once and I am in my early 50's and her parents 47 . This came up in a discussion today with a close female friend of mine asking me why I do stupid things and I told her for the rush of it....

Can't say that me and the Mrs. would ever do 2 or 3, but since it's our house we have definitely done 1 many times over!

#1- I did it once, but wasn't very comfortable and wound up rushing her out and doing lots of recon for evidence. I've had several come by my office after hours though.
#2 - I hired a sb to do some cleaning in a house I was selling, and she met my wife. My wife thought she was a very nice girl
#3- Never done that one

#1 once, never again. She stuffed the condom wrapper in the sofa, thank god i found it.
#2 not yet, probably wont.
#3 took food to her family gathering, kinda a rush.

Never
Never ever
Never ever ever

NO
NO WAY
NO FUCKING WAY

Why don't you try sky diving out of a plane without the parachute, then have someone in the plane throw the parachute out of the plane, so you can catch it in the air, put it on, then pull the cord.. all this before you hit the ground at 100mph, with no room for error.

That'll give you the rush your looking for.

No fucking way for me. Plus, I'm out of "get out of jail free" cards. One more conviction and I'll be moving in with El Gato.

Nope, no and no. Hobby life is private. Perhaps that is why I am still married after 40 years. I've been hobbying for more than 40.

My SO join me in the hobby. Perhaps that why I'm still married after 22 years.

Whoa That.guy............who said I would let you in???? We're good friends, but in order to remain good friends there is no way I would let you in. I've been in your office, and the ideas you were sharing with me last month about doing some changes would serve you just fine.

Back to the thread, although it does not apply to me since I am single......
1. Have had several sugarbabies play in my bed. In fact I have one coming in the morning to wake me up properly. I have even taken some providers over and took pictures for their showcases.

2. NO wife.....So no.

3. I have not been introduced to anyones family but I once took a provider to Smitty's house for a BBQ at his insistence. She was introduced as my girlfriend. At the end of the night there were some couples sitting in his backyard when the provider turns to me and tells me in a voice loud enough for everyone to hear....."you ready to go home babe, because I want to suck your cock tonight!" You should have seen the look on the wives faces. One of the husbands got up, came over to me and gave me a high five. Very comical moment.

Never
Never ever
Never ever ever Originally Posted by 338lapmag

What he said.

Elgato69 - #3, im cracking up all by myself here. That guy who gave you the high five is awesome!! lol!

No
No
No

Let's try this on the providers end...


I don't mind doing outcalls to a married man's home if I know the guy well and he can ASSURE me that she's out of town, or for whatever reason WILL NOT be in.

I have never willingly done this but I have been stuck w/ stalker like situations where I am out w/ my s/o and a hobbyist is "coincidentally" at the same place....just weird, and VERY UNCOMFORTABLE

Once again, I'll reiterate the stalker like sentiment, I had one hobbyist, whom I'd seen seeing for a couple of years....go over to my parents house and INTRODUCE HIMSELF, while I wasn't there. THAT WAS THE WORST!

So yea, I will try to avoid any of those situations, and I don't think I would feel comfortable putting myself in situation 2/3. The valley is ridiculously small place!