Describing a female Orgasim

Okay, world, dont know where else to turn but maybe someone (preferaly providers) can help me describe a female orgasim.

I'm hooking up with a girl who has only been with one other guy. She asked me about her having an orgasim and knowing when she has one.

She's had all the usual signs, you know dialated pupils, redness in the chest, nipples super hard, and even shakes. She's gotten supper wet when all these hit her but has not squirted.

I was just wondering if any of you ladies could help me out and give her direction as to what to look for or how to describe what she should be feeling.


Thanks in advance.
Big Joe's Avatar
That pussy aught to get super super tight and grab onto you like a glove as it starts contracting O and when she has one, there will be no mistaking it, for you or her.
squrting is not required for an "O"

General info at
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm
pyramider's Avatar
I thought they only Oed when buying shoes ...
fletch's Avatar
I thought they only Oed when buying shoes ... Originally Posted by pyramider
or jewelry
daty/o's Avatar
Why are you asking the ladies? Clearly, the people on here who know about O's are the guys. If you don't believe me, read any of the reviews.
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They are all studs and female anatomy experts.

She's had all the usual signs, you know dialated pupils, redness in the chest, nipples super hard, and even shakes. She's gotten supper wet when all these hit her but has not squirted.

Thanks in advance. Originally Posted by latinowith8
Hmmm...sounds like she's posessed or having a seizure. I'm so sorryy....LOL....I couldn't resist. You must be very young to ask this question.
I cannot explain to you what female orgasm is like....probably the same feeling the guys have. Extreme pleasure.
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By the way, there is no I in orgasm. (or maybe I misunderstood what she was saying).
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Hmmm...sounds like she's posessed or having a seizure. I'm so sorryy....LOL....I couldn't resist. You must be very young to ask this question.
I cannot explain to you what female orgasm is like....probably the same feeling the guys have. Extreme pleasure. Originally Posted by samantha thom
LMAO!!!
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The best feeling in the world.. It starts with the warmness and personally I love the tingling sensation I get Everything, and I mean everything, gets more and more sensitive as I can feel myself getting closer. You know how the hairs on the back of your neck can stand up when someone is lightly rubbing your back with the tips of their nails... that is how it feels. Then comes the ultimate rush, uncontrollable pulsating from inside and that is when the water works come. Even after I cum I can still feel my muscles contracting. It is true, the closer I get to cumming the tighter I get.The most amazing thing I never get tired of experiencing
The best feeling in the world.. It starts with the warmness and personally I love the tingling sensation I get Everything, and I mean everything, gets more and more sensitive as I can feel myself getting closer. You know how the hairs on the back of your neck can stand up when someone is lightly rubbing your back with the tips of their nails... that is how it feels. Then comes the ultimate rush, uncontrollable pulsating from inside and that is when the water works come. Even after I cum I can still feel my muscles contracting. It is true, the closer I get to cumming the tighter I get.The most amazing thing I never get tired of experiencing Originally Posted by melannie_star

Thank Melannie, I know she is but you know a guys gotta ask the girl. So when i ask her "did you" she says "I dont know, I dont know what I'm looking for".

I tried to describe to her what it feels like, well from a guys stand point, but I guess I'm not doing that great of a job describing one. LOL

Thanks again.
She's had all the usual signs, you know dialated pupils, redness in the chest, nipples super hard, and even shakes. She's gotten supper wet when all these hit her but has not squirted.

Sounds like she squirts to me if she got her supper wet.
Dude, quit watching porn. It does not happen that way in real life. Just relax, make love to your woman and it will happen. Forget about squrting as well. Its NOT required as part of an orgasim. If it happens great but quite worrying about it.

Ask her what feels good. Tell her to direct your actions when you do something extra good. Don't be afraid to talk about it and you will get there. Some women have "O"s very easy and often. Many take a bit longer and some have a very hard time. They are all different and only time and experience will help both of you get what you both want.
Reality: If she has to ask you if she's having an orgasm, she probably isn't.

Advice for you: Given your question/content, you should probably just go upstairs and ask your mom.