What would you say....?

Providers and hobbyists alike, if you could go back to the very first time that you hobbied, and give yourself one piece of advice or lesson learned, what would it be? What's throne thing that tout know now that you wish you knew back then?

Stay off BP non GFE chicks suck ! But that's what brought me here , without it I probably would not have even heard about this pit !

Stay off BP non GFE chicks suck ! Originally Posted by rockerrick

Ditto, stay away from the Amps, BP, CL, MOCO.

good thing I've never done Moco, some of the horror stories those poor bastards go through

Don't do it, it's too addicting and your hand will feel better and make you cum, unlike sex which can go on for awhile and never ends the way it should.

Patience... and research. Two absolute must haves.

All awesome answers so far... Totally agree with the BP, Moco, etc... 100% agree with the research, it takes patience, but is totally worth it...

150% agree that it is very very very addicting and expensive habit...

I would add that once on ECCIE, especially in the beginning take the time to do reviews, get verified, go to the socials... That helps a lot in the research and you get to meet with people who have all kinds of insight. There are a lot of really cool people in our little community all from different backgrounds with great stories both hobby and real life related.

Going to have to try social again. Have only been to one years ago ASPD days.

I'm so close to wanting to tell myself to only visit ladies that I meet at the socials. Sure, gotta get verified first. But, if I pace myself by seeing only those ladies I have met and had time to speak with, then go home and start the research, it should slow me down. All of the reviews being read, physical appearance verified by my own two eyes, chemistry already tested and a shit ton of anticipation should result in a good experience.

I really enjoy the Socials! It's probably the most unique thing for me about the entire hobbying/ECCIE experience. I've met UTR's, had teriffic sessions with others after first meeting them in public, and have enjoyed meeting the guys, as well, and swapping stories and tips. And there is no other feeling in the world than to look around a room and realize that I've shtupped almost every lady in sight!

be very careful who you "trust"....especially doubles girl wise!

To quote Ronald Reagan: "Trust, but verify!"

Hobby less and be more selective. Try not to get in a position where the "little brain" dictates what you do. If things don't seem, feel or smell right....walk the fuck away.

if you could go back to the very first time that you hobbied, and give yourself one piece of advice or lesson learned, what would it be?

I should have banked for 2 hours instead of one (Gwendolyn was the first)

What's throne thing that tout know now that you wish you knew back then?

Patience

For a long long time I was interested in quantity and it cost me a LOT of hard earned money. I came to realize is by being patient and by jumping through the hoops of scheduling with some high class ladies here that the experience is on a totally different level.
I wish I would have figured that out earlier, but I was dropped when I was an infant I suspect more than once

Don't do it, it's too addicting .... Originally Posted by marcuslloyd

+1 on that