It's with a heavy heart that I have to write this. It has come to my attention that malicious rumors are being spread about me. Apparently I was going to "out" another member. As soon as I found this out I spoke to several people close to said member and it was cleared up. I did not out or threaten to out anyone. A person close to said member was the one who actually concocted everything to purposely try to destroy my reputation. In the past two months, my personal information including my phone number, real name, and my address was leaked to other members by this person who's been stalking me. I've been trying my best to stay away from said person and to ignore the drama as I do not like drama. I've been threatened, harassed, and stalked. I have proof to back up everything as well. I've also sent the proof to the mods. This was intended to be kept bcd but apparently someone is still spreading the rumors. I URGE you to talk directly to those that the rumors involve. Ask them if I really was threatening to out them. I feel horrible because I do not ever like to hurt people and I've been targeted for absolutely no reason. Everyone involved realizes the truth now but it has not stopped the rumors. I am thankful for the apologies that I've gotten from some members because they thought I was actually the one stalking and hurting others. I assure you that is not the case. I did not want to be involved in this drama. I did not cause this drama. And even when my family was in danger by this stalker I still tried to act professional and keep the drama away from my clients.
I have proof of everything I've said. And now I ask PLEASE for everyone to stop spreading malicious rumors unless they are 100% certain they are true. You have no idea how much you're helping my stalker destroy me and my family. If you hear anything please ask for proof! Emails, texts, anything. See for your own eyes before continuing to spread rumors. We are all adults and we should act like it. I am a mother of 5 children who I'm defending furiously. My children are my world. But because of some unstable person they've put me and my children at risk. I am not for he said she said childishness. I have proof to prove my innocence.
I have placed this in the co ed forum because I know that even some providers hate me now because of these rumors. Again I am sorry that I even had to post this. I really hate drama and I've cried several times because I've been unwillingly dragged into this. I just want everything to go back to the way it was. I've been here since 2011 and I've never stalked or hurt someone. Yes I did get feisty once with another provider but we made amends and are keeping it professional.
And if you were given my personal information please I am begging you NOT to tell anyone. I am quickly trying to move but it requires me to have money that I have not yet been able to save up. I don't want any more drama. And I don't want my family in danger.
From this point on I will let this matter rest. You've heard my side and if you'd like proof please talk to one of the mods or myself. You can also talk to those directly involved in the rumors. If you hear a rumor..verify it before you spread it. I again apologize for the drama that has descended upon the board. I tried my best to squash it and it didn't work.
Have a wonderful week, everyone.
Malaya
I'm sorry you're going through this sweetie. Stay prayed up, I'll send some your way too
Providing is a difficult and dangerous profession but for certain people it can be truly amazing. Being the kind of person I am...I tend to be an easy target because I am ill equipped to fight back. Those that are close to me know that I almost lost my life because of a hobbyist in 2007. I was too trusting. Although I'm grateful for all the amazing people I've met and it has definitely been a life experience but I do think I belong in the "real world". I appreciate your concern and advice.