My SO of 19 years and I recently went on a trip, stayed in a bad ass hotel and late one night we got drunk and somehow started talking about getting a strap on and letting her have her way with me. We talked about it in such detail that I got wood, she had me stand in front of a window overlooking the city and pose in a position I would like to be fucked in, soon after I found that she was very wet! We had amazing sex!
Since then when she talks about it, "we need to get the strap on so I can deep throat you and you know how it feels" I get hard.
Question is should I buy one and go for it? She is my love and I get hot thinking about it but will she really drop the hammer? Advice from ladies preferred. No she does not know about the hobby.