verified just Feels better

I have been on here awhile, and I i have read many reviews good and bad...Verified Girls are 99% good and BP Girls are 50% bad. The numbers speak for themselves. Two part question; Why wouldn't you stick with a verified provider? 2nd part....why wouldn't a provider want to join eccie to become verified? It appears you gain more respect, better clientele, people feel more comfortable with you. You establish regulars that have money and don't play games. Just curious what others thought.

disagreement of this in private as IMHO his %'s are way off the mark at this time

I didn't actually know about Eccie when I started--I didn't come over here until one of the gentlemen on Date-Check recommended it to me. So yeah, I suppose knowing about the site at all could be an obstacle...

i hate giving "references"

just do..................., if nothing else it lets my regulars know im NOT seeing them and I dont care to go hat in hand to them and ask them to "vouche" for me

that buhlshit never came up for me untill this site and the latter days of my purchasing prostitutes

cant teach an old trick new tricks

and it only had to happen twice where they took my references more than once, and then didnt even go through with the appointment
so in that, theres a chance they WASTED my regulars time with their buhlshit,............TWICE

and even if they didnt , me having to give them more than once to the same chick disolved my short patience span...

I just dont like the concept, its just MY OWN little quirk, so fuck it, ill just go to those that dont need them

or they can look at my posting history here

Nothing is ever truly safe or certain in the hobby or life. There is just an added security on boards because thru make learning and homework easier. I started using BP almost a year ago it like many things has UPS and downs. In my area on sites I'm very busy in winter and summer because of lakes, country clubs, snowmobiles and ski resorts by me. If it isn't summer or winter I only see regulars and business travelers off of sites the rest of the time I need to use BP which out here is all brand new guys trying this for the first time, it's a Lot more work getting A feel for someone and screening on BP of complete newbies for sure.
I know great providers that are BP only and great gents that are BP only but there is garbage to pick through, hell , even on here.
Everything needs to be taken with A grain of salt everywhere.

I've had much better luck with VP's than with gals on BP. I've been satisfied with every VP gal I've met. I put my satisfaction rate for BP at less than 20%. That's just been my experience. Others will have it different. I'll admit up front I'm heavily biased towards VP gals. I've just had poor luck with BP. I'm thinking the poorest luck of any human walking the planet LOL. Much of it is probably on me though. I much prefer GFE's and they seem to be slim pickens on BP. And more pitfalls with BP that I don't feel like dealing with. I know people will disagree but that's been my experience.

I agree with JB on references. Not a big fan of having to give them but I'm willing to do it. It just feels odd admitting to a gal that you want to see someone else. They seem ok with it. I understand it adds a layer of safety for the ladies.

I see eccie has signifigant pluses for providers,
- information sharing and lessons learned
- stability in rates and offerings and how to market oneself and find a marketable and successful style
- provider independance
- advertising to a focused group of clientele

Drawbacks
- Granted some monkey business here and there and some drama
- if a provider can't handle tcb, or lacks consistancy in performance, reviews will draw it over time, and they will not be as succesful on eccie and better off trolloing BP
- also, providers who are part time, may do better on BP or others because they can turn the ads on and off, and not get streams of inquiries while they are not providing, or in hiatus

I visited another state where eccie has no presence. Most girls on BP were being pimped with fake photos, and when they showed up, would ask for extra money because the pimp gets so much.

The presence of eccie, makes bp here better, and sniffs out cash and dash con artists a lot sooner, and a few positive reviews here will provide success to a providers bp endeavors

As far as other web services for providers, I don't care for date check and is too busy of an interface. Naughty reviews is ok, but still has false advertising issues. I can't stand navigating TER. P411 is good, and my prime alternate.

There some providers who where once on eccie, and no longer here because of somre type of drama, and they may be more selective as they mature. Typically these are excellent providers, and they are maintaining there eccie clientele in other ways.

Everything needs to be taken with A grain of salt everywhere. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

The VP status is not quite the Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval, but at least it screens out most fly-by-night operators.

I have been on here awhile, and I i have read many reviews good and bad...Verified Girls are 99% good and BP Girls are 50% bad. The numbers speak for themselves. Two part question; Why wouldn't you stick with a verified provider? 2nd part....why wouldn't a provider want to join eccie to become verified? It appears you gain more respect, better clientele, people feel more comfortable with you. You establish regulars that have money and don't play games. Just curious what others thought. Originally Posted by mcgraw69

I have to agree with OsD that your numbers are exaggerated. I would guess that VPs have an edge, but I think that can be explained simply in that that they might be more computer literate.

Also, VPs have an edge because the pool is smaller. Sure, you'll get 99% positive in spurts, but for a three week period, 85% of that 99% is everybody knocking on the new flavor's door. On BP, one girl isn't going to get as much attention here. But one neg BP review and everyone piles on.

In many cases the same girls use both, muting the point.

Your last thoughts are the recipe for success and easier said than done.

Final point, if it was just a matter of safety, why wouldn't we just nail the SO? We're fucked up horndogs that thrill in the hunt for strange. And BP has more strange.

The VP status is not quite the Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval, but at least it screens out most fly-by-night operators. Originally Posted by jackfengshui

All it takes to be a VP is an email, phone, and a John that says 'yes'. I could be one by Wednesday, if not sooner. eccie advises vp status is no endorsement of safety.

eccie advises vp status is no endorsement of safety. Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

Most of us know that it is not an endorsement and there are no guarantees, but statistics have shown that, in general, there are better odds of being satisfied with a VP than a BP provider.

... VP ... I could be one by Wednesday, if not sooner. Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

I would love to see a demonstration of that.

I tend to bounce BP ads off of ECCIE, since I think that BP gives up to date availability (I know they're in the area and may be available), pictures of the provider are a must, and the reviews on ECCIE cement my decision. There have been some ladies who have caught my eye, but after checking out their ECCIE reviews, I have chosen not to meet up with them.