Sure. Don't give up all your verification info if you are put under that pressure, when pulled over leaving an incall, or whatever. Or at least let me know if you get scared and do give it up. Believe it or not, I have been notified more times than we've had incidents.
Originally Posted by GinaXXX
I have no problem at all in believing you've been notified more times than you've had actual incidents like those you describe.
Unfortunately, the reality is that the majority of people, in particular clients, will give up all of their information to be used without hesitation. The only thing that really saves us is that in the vast majority of operations, they have neither the time or budget to go to any great lengths... dailing off of Backpage (or posting a fake ad on BP) will suffice, although every now and then they do put more effort into it. Oh and 99% of the time the target the providers, not the clients.
Originally Posted by GinaXXX
I agree. Hence my astonishment that you've never had a provider do that.
The "Remain Silent" advice is the definitive, and essentially only truly effective defense against the pressure tactics employed against you in such situations. On one level, it's simple to remember and, technically, there's nothing easier to do. "Just Keep Your Mouth Shut."
However, on another level, it does take a strong person to, under the pressure of the moment, reject the offer of having their own ass protected in exchange for pointing the accusers toward the ass of someone else.
Self-interest and self-preservation, too often, cause some people to do some pretty slimy things to others.
We can only hope that those with such "ethical flexibility" will eventually reap what they sow.
From what I've observed in life, what goes around actually does come back around eventually, more often than not.
Deuce