Should this really be able to continue....?

Ok... So here is the deal... (and believe me not the 1st time this has happened... and I am sure it wont be the last.... unfortunately...)
BUT
I just received a message from back from a provider about a reference... oh boy.....
I've gotta say... I haven't ever heard anything bad about his chick....

But this right here... just doesn't sit well with me... and I don't think that this should be able to continue... especially since this is something that is messing with our safety...

I have asked many ladies on this board for a "Vouch, reference, or to verify a gentleman.... many ladies reply with a very nice lengthy response about who ever I am asking them about... HOWEVER.... there are a handful of ladies that absolutely REFUSE to say anything about their experience with that gentleman in question....

I am sorry that this may seem or sound like complaining, whining or whatever.... but when I get a response that simply says
"I dont vouch for people" and
"Me telling you he is ok, is not going to keep your dumbass safe..."
I just dont think that should be allowed on this site....
anyhow... I got another reply from her stating that I am a
"Dumb bitch that needs to do her own screening....?
oh... and that I should stay on the safe side and not reply...."

um... excuse me but I do my own screening... and Pm'ing some providers is a PART of my screening.... And to threaten me... for asking for a damn reference.... get out of your ass...

I just think that somebody that is not concerned with her safety (Assuming her screening is lacking the reference check.... I would love to know her screening process actually...) or another providers safety... I just don't think that she would care about yours....

Thank you for letting me vent.... I am also curious....
What is your opinion about this type of situation...?

Dakota Marie

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=542945&highlight=

There is No rule stating I must provide you with anything.
You come at me rude after all I said in my pm back to you "I don't vouch"
My guest PM me stating who they would like to see, I then PM the provider and explain who he is and ... that is all.

This Thread was NOT intended to create drama or to "call you out" just simply to help me understand... to get opinions.... because I obviously just don't understand...

So...here is a question... why not just pm me back.... saying

"please have the gentleman PM me first. Thanks..."
OR
"I have seen him.. but I may have a different screening process... so be careful"

its simple... and to the point.... but not rude...

All I want to know when I PM a provider is if he is LE or not.... I know that everyone will act however they want with you... and then they will act a bit differently with me.... that is only part of the reason for me to pm you....

That type of stuff makes it hard I thought providers supposed to help each other out when it comes to screening

I can say....that 82vinny has explicitly stated she doesnt provide refs...the "traditional" way.
It is what it is...
When a lady doesnt vouch....just make a mental note. When a gent uses them...i personally ask for another ref.
The ugly messages....i have no comment on that.

On another note.....im baaaack from my lil vacay!!!
With that being said....my hobby line is back on, im synced back with my email, and ill be checking pms more frequently
So send your ref requests (appointment requests are even better) lol

Gentlemen....if i have not seen you this year....please do NOT use me as a ref.

Nope we don't HAVE to do anything.

And like you were very sweet to me calling me a piece of shit whore provider. LMAO

And me stating "I don't Vouch" Is simple and to the point!

Look at reviews the hobbyist has made and check to see if they were the ones he was using as a reff.
You can ask him personal questions address place of business then check those out.
You can check/ "search Handle in Cashe" to see if there is there are any Alerts.
Many many ways you can screen. But Im the bad guy for three words.

I don't vouch Sue me please.

Yeah... uh... go back to your messages....

that is NOT all you sent me....

...On another note.....im baaaack from my lil vacay!!!
With that being said....my hobby line is back on, im synced back with my email, and ill be checking pms more frequently
So send your ref requests (appointment requests are even better) lol

Gentlemen....if i have not seen you this year....please do NOT use me as a ref. Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

Please stay on topic.

JJ
ECCIE
SA STAFF

Let's just hug it out,a few smooches on each cheek and get back to making love..
I don't like to be used as a reference , simply because I may be working and not able to respond back in a timely manner.I have vouched/referenced and even though I may send no more than three words usually"Yes he's nice" I don't mind helping someone out.I actually had a girl call to verify a guy and actually she's now my friend on fb.everyone handles business differently...Xo.have a great evening and a glass of sangria ladies.Xo cheers!

Let's just hug it out,a few smooches on each cheek and get back to making love..
I don't like to be used as a reference , simply because I may be working and not able to respond back in a timely manner.I have vouched/referenced and even though I may send no more than three words usually"Yes he's nice" I don't mind helping someone out.I actually had a girl call to verify a guy and actually she's now my friend on fb.everyone handles business differently...Xo.have a great evening and a glass of sangria ladies.Xo cheers! Originally Posted by Miss Glamazon Girl

mmm Sangria lets do it

Dakota if you'd like some alternate methods of screening, please pm me.

Oh my sweet Dakota...

...cum here and gimmie a hug!!!



.....you too Vinny...


now lets get naked and

I always stay utr with these females but as soon as someone gets offended ohhhhhhh Lord. I can be nice or your worst nightmare and I'm sure we all know that by now but really. How I do my hobby is up to me and I shouldn't get all these bad fucking comments and whispers behind my back for the way I choose to run my business. Just so tired of these chicks.@amellia Thanks for the Hug though needed that!

Nvm