I have been reading alot about s/d s/b relationships. I want to know what exactly is expected of the women. After awhile does it become a BBFS? Or does this vary by gentlemen?
Originally Posted by zoebee
My recommendation is to seek the advice of actual SDs and SBs, people who actually know what they're talking about. You're going to get a lot of assumptive, "service" oriented responses here. And if you're going into it with service in mind, you may as well remain a provider.
To answer your question, it will vary. As in any other arena of dating, you have to be careful. Some men will want you to go bareback. Don't do it unless you know for sure he is safe, he is exclusive to you and YOU are OK with it. Most SD's are married. As far as I am concerned, if he has the freedom/right to sleep with someone else, safety always.
It is a scary world out there. I can't tell you how many men have told me, up front, they are "vasectomy safe" and want unprotected sex. And they are married. They are more than happy to risk their wives' heath for a piece of anonymous pie. Be careful. You will be no exception.