What do you do when .....

Gena_Luv's Avatar
You out of no where get a text MSG or a call from a SO claiming She has seen the msgs has even seen pictures and what not and knows about her husband hooking up with a so called "$2 whore".
I recieved a call and shortly after text msgs from a hobbyist's wife and she wasn't to happy I just told her I didn't know what she was talking about and didn't communicate any further she did continue to threaten me with pics and a few other things.
Has anyone experienced this type of nonsense?
What did you say to the SO?
"Can I see the kids on weekends?"
AcesHigh's Avatar
I might consider saying that you had just gotten service at this number and have no idea why she thinks you were the person texting back.
JohnnyYanks's Avatar
... and knows about her husband hooking up with a so called "$2 whore" ... Originally Posted by Jenzbunzrbig32
I'd set her straight on the Donation - it might be a ploy for the hubby to haggle and low ball. Never underestimate the depths the cheap hobbyist will plunge.
Gena_Luv's Avatar
Gotcha JohnnyYanks I would've never thought that would be a ploy for a cheapskate jerk.
mayorcastro's Avatar
" I don't know who you are or who you think this is but you have the wrong number."
I might consider saying that you had just gotten service at this number and have no idea why she thinks you were the person texting back. Originally Posted by AcesHigh
+ 1
I had one SO threaten to turn me into LE. I played dumb like i had NO IDEAR what she was talkin bout. Never heard back. Its funny how they're problem is with us.
Booo

KitKat
Throw it right back with something like this:

"look you tell my lying soon to be ex-husband that tactics like this will not help his case for child support next week!"
The Unknown Comic's Avatar
Nice Charlotte. Folks there is an app called "call blocker". It has a lot of great features.
LOL!! You are so bad!

"Can I see the kids on weekends?" Originally Posted by PDid
handyGiraffe's Avatar
+1 what the UKcomic said
If that doesn't work tell her that her issue is with someone else and that the next time she calls you ...she will have at that time... invited hell to visit her....
John Landecker's Avatar
Here is an interesting story....another SO that thought it was all the girls fault.

I saw this woman awhile back and we started to talk about the bad things that can happen in this hobby. She said she has been pretty lucky, except once.

She was doing an outcall. BCD started in the living room and by the time they made it into the bedroom they were naked. The music was playing, she was giving him head when suddenly the bedroom door opens and it is the guy’s wife. As she put it, “His 500 pound wife.”

And the wife was PISSED OFF! She put all the blame on the girl and said she was going to kill her ass. Husband jumped up, escort ran to the bathroom and locked the door…all the while thinking…oh shit, all my stuff is in the living room. While in there she hears the guy say to his wife, “Just put the knife down, PUT IT DOWN!” The woman kept saying...."I'm going to kill her ass."

The escort finds some shorts that probably belong to the wife. So she puts them on…..but of course they don’t fit, so holding them with her hands she makes a run to the living room. There she finds the SO’s two friends, one tries to grab her so she pushes her to the ground….the other is just laughing at her.

She gets her phone and most of her clothes, as she hears the SO and mad wife come near…and without looking back she bolts….topless ….out to her car, locks the door and drives away.

Yeah…she could have made it up…but that look on her face as she told the story looked pretty genuine.
ck1942's Avatar
Sure hope you let the scumbag know his wife is on the warpath.

In fact, if he is on eccie, you definitely should list his handle in the ladies' infoshare area. And if he is not a member here, at the very least post the phone number so other ladies don't get caught up in the drama. Maybe even post the physical address, too.

Outcalls - you need to know who what when where lives there. Googling the address itself can usually help.

And YES, more than few hobbyists have been caught out and about, some even with their pants around their ankles.
Chrissy Cole's Avatar
I agree that the best way to handle it is to deny, deny, deny! The SO may just need to rant and you'll probably never hear from her again. Lol, this would make me a nervous wreck!