SDE

We all have heard of GFE and PSE but may I propose a new genre of Hobbying experience? But first, a little background. I have been Hobbying for years and years and much prefer the so-called GFE with conversation, laughter, kissing followed by mutually fulfilling BCD activities. Separately, I enjoy, albeit rarely, hitting a strip club while out of town. I usually sit at the bar, chat up the ladies, buy them drinks and receive a rare lap dance from those dancers I find attractive and fun. While getting a dance from the particular sexy dancer, I fantasize about "going the extra mile" but of course, THAT is not on the menu, or at least not the way I would want it--in private, on a bed without being rushed. So I propose a new service line for those ladies who so choose to provide it: the Stripper Dance Experience. Now through the years I have seen this done to varying degrees. I met a provider who had a stripper pole in her bedroom but there was no dancing happening there on that day, at least for me. I've had another provider who used to dance do a mini lap dance on me before we really going (see my review of Emily DD). Still, I want more....something like this. I enter the incall where I am offered a beer and ushered to a chair where I receive a sexy dance or two from my hostess, complete with touching...the whole 9 yards. This dance goes on for several songs while clothes slowly come off. All BCD activities occur in the chair while the music continues to play. A half hour visit gets you one extended dance, a hour gets you two. Anyway, for me, this seems a cool way to avoid the situation where I get all hot and bothered at a club, then play Russian roulette on the board trying to see someone who is available at the time.

Perhaps this has been discussed before but I have never experienced this in 15 years of Hobbying so forgive me for my ignorance if this topic has been explored. Thanks!

Rockin Roxxy does the stripper-sex thing beautifully and with some amazing dance moves during BCD in ways that can blow not only the mind.

19Trees

Thank you sir...good info

TF,
That is a great idea... It does suck getting worked up at then trying for a last minute appointment... lol

I want this.

PM's accepted.

It's not clear whether you're talking about all the way to CFS. Be sure you make that clear.

Uhmm... Paven has been already doing this for years, and quite well. She won't offer you a beer, and she is NOT FS, but it doesn't matter. What she does after the strip tease is well worth it.

by BCD I meant all the typical FS activities including CFS. Sorry for the vagueness.

This is solid.

+1 this really should be the standard especially in Texas . I know we are both a sure thing once we are BCD, but give me 3 songs worth of an illusion that some kind of seduction is happening, teasing, cooing, groping, etc., before all the suckin and fuckin begins.

My only caveats are - no lucite platform heels, no goddam slapping the heels together. And no vanilla body spray. Ye gods think of the chillunz

This IS the coed section isn't it? I'm enjoying the guys' input but, my word, where are the ladies?? If I'm a provider, and I'm not, I'd be sensing a business opportunity at the very least. For those adventurous types, this additional product line could add some spice to a possibly ho-hum provider existence. For every lady who can't wait to chime in when a monger requests FF, DT and CIM, you'd think there'd be one who is interested in providing SDE.

I am going to send the link to this thread to a couple of ladies and see what happens.

+1. After a Paven experience I like the concept , but decided a CFS/GFE-ish end is surely the way to go.

Btw, I was fully aware she is not FS and this in no way reflects negatively on her, because that was a damn good experience.

I think this fantasy should add one more layer.

I love the idea. It's hot and naughty and everyone loves foreplay. But for an entirely "organic experience" I think the scenario should go as follows:

*knock, knock* girl answers door in an almost-too-revealing-but-not-quite button down blouse and skirt/shorts/pants/whatever.
"Hi! It's so nice to see you, please come in!"
Guy and girl settle on to couch, knees touching, and slip into small conversation. Light petting, laughter, and banter ensue and it isn't long before girl straddles guy. She grabs his face and plants a long, knee-quivering kiss on his lips. She begins to grind and move - queue strip tease.

The moments before all of the clothes are off are the best, if you ask me. (Which no one did, but I love any excuse to hear myself speak )

That sounds good Belle. I like the straddling and slow strip you describe. The "dancer" unbuttoning my jeans. Pulling it out if them and going to work. I hate the usual hobby experience where we each go to a corner and undress ourselves that feels more like a doctors appointment than an intimate encounter.