BREATHING:
Breathing while your man makes love to your mouth can be a challenge. It takes practice, but can be easily accomplished with concentration. Breathe when he has pulled back, and swallow when his thrusts in. It's easy to panic and lose it if you don't concentrate, but be assured that in time it will become almost second nature to you.
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Just so you know, the ultimate goal for a good oral sex practitioner is to beableto allow your partner to use your mouth and throat just like he would your pussy, with just a little more consideration for the fact that you have to breathe through the same hole that he's making love to. Once you know what you're doing you'll be able to take him into your throat even in the "submissive"kneeling position.
Oral sex is more than just the insertion of the penis into the mouth; it's all about friction. Soft most friction, fast and slow friction, textured friction, tactile and visual stimulation too. In the next few paragraphs I will tell you about the secret weapon that you have at your disposal to make your man cum in your mouth every time you want him to.
Your teeth: The contrast of the hard smooth porcelain of the front of your teeth, with the soft smooth giving texture of your lips and the hot moist slipperiness of your tongue combine to make oral sex something that can be mind blowing if used in the proper sequence.
The secret to get a man to shoot off is "variety". If you just kneel and bob, he'll most likely let you, but I doubt if he will have an orgasm. (Barring first times of course.)
YOUR TONGUE:
You should start off your oral sex using your tongue. Lick him -- swirl your tongue around and around the head, suck on the head with your moist lips, rub the underside of the head and shaft against the flat of your teeth, then sink down on him as far as your can.
The tongue is the secret weapon to any great oral sex. Most women can't swirl their tongue around their man's shaft while it is in their mouth. If you have a big mouth like mine it can be done. But if you don't, don't despair. You can get around this by licking him like a lollypop, and swirling it around his sensitive head. And the man gets the added "visual" stimulation soeveryone wins.
Licking is something you should do whether or not you can swirl your tongue around his shaft with it embedded in your mouth. Licking and head kissing-sucking is important. It plays to the "cock-worship" stimulation; it has both the physical and visual aspects that make the difference between a humdrum blowjob and a great one.
MASTURBATION:
Masturbation is also an important part of oral sex, it heightens the friction and brings your man closer to orgasm faster. (You'd be surprised how many woman have never actually been able to get their men off with masturbation. That is usually because she doesn't know how and has never REALLY tried to do it right.)
The proper masturbation technique is important. Many women hold the penistoo lightly or too tight. Feel the skin, it should move against the substructure of his shaft smoothly, almost like pudding. An uneven rhythm is best, don't try to compete with his own technique because you'll lose. He has the advantage of knowing how he feels and what turns him on. But you have a big advantage too, you turn him on just by being naked and worshiping his penis. Even he can't do that as well as you can.
SWALLOWING:
In my opinion swallowing is important. A man's sperm is 98% protein, and it's tasteless. It smells like bleach, and is slippery like clams, but it's pretty nice once you get used to it. You can make quite a scene swallowing it. My suggestion is to let him see that you are swallowing his cum. If you don't mind looking slutty, (And I don't) let some of his precious cum slide out between your lips and then suck it back in and swallow it. A brilliant smile at this moment will be appreciated.
I read a book once that said if you didn't want to swallow, you could always spit it out on a towel. My feeling is that if you've been "sucking" your man's dick long enough to make him cum, why stop there? A man's cum is actually good for you, (High in Protein) and it can't hurt you and it is the final affirmation that you think he's hot.
With a new lover I suggest finding out werehestandssexually.Ifyou'vej ust given him the blowjob of his lifeand he's acceptedyour gift, see how he reacts next. Is he a giver or not?
CUM SWAPPING:
When I get to know a man I finishoffwith a french-kissto send all french-kisses. (Not suggested for a first time sexual union, unless he seems eager for it.) You might be surprised; about 25% of the men I've been with didn't mind tasting their own cum, and some of them enjoyed it immensely, starting our hot encounter over again. (And I enjoyed the cum swapping too.)
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There are more techniques that make a girl a real pro at oral sex, but I think I'll let you find these out for yourself. I've armed you with all the knowledge that you'll need to be the best little cock sucker he'll probably ever know. The key is your imagination, if you've got it, you'll succeed swimmingly, if you don't, well, I'm sorry, just do the best you can.
I will tell one more secret though, and it is the most important thing to know of all.
Although good oral sex is about friction, variety and good mouth work, it amounts to only half of what's needed to make a man blow his load. The other half (and believe me when I say this) is visual stimulation.
Act sexy, but not gross; my rule of thumb is, "Just because you can, doesn't mean you should." Never a truer statement was made. Make sure you know your partner before becoming too experimental. But once you do know him, pull out all the stops to please him.
Let him "see" you sucking on him, let him "see" you worshiping his penis; let him "see" you enjoying his equipment. Make sure that he knows with certainty that you love him and his equipment. Submit to hiswonderful instrument, caress it, make love to it, you will be rewarded a million timesoverby a most gratefullover♥