if the lady isnt a memebe of date-check..then there is no way she can verify you there...she has to be a member in order for that to work out efficiently for the
both of you..p411 is a great tool..
Just a heads up for ya though.....some providers will ask you for more than just your p411 or date check
info..they dont rely solely on those types of places to screen but as a tool in addition to her screening process..
I use every site in America literally, and i can say overall p411 is one of my FAVORITES as far as how many clients are on there as well i feel its one of the safer ones with better gentlemen generally.
AND i agree with qixerotic, to me date-check is just ok.
Date-Check lets you pay once for lifetime membership. I'm up to 15 or so vouches there. I've never had any booking issues using my Date-Check ID when traveling. I've not used P411.
I've been on Date-check for several years, partly because of their one-time lifetime membership fee (best investment ever for the hobby). Lately I wanted to see some providers who only took P411, and decided to try it for a year. If you use it multiple times a year, the cost/use goes down . So far, happy. I think there's some regional bias. Both have been helpful.