Sugardaddy vs Hobby vs Bringing Sugarbabe to the Hobby

We've discussed the sugar daddy / sugar babe deal versus the hobby before but I've been thinking . . . I've played in both the sugardaddy role and obviously in the hobby, but never have searched the sugardaddy sites specifically searching for new talent. [There's obvious unsafe places to search for new talent these days] Anyone have experience with that? Approach? Success?

Ladies, feel free to chime in. This isn't intended to be a guys only discussion.

Sugardaddy.com, myredbook.com, Sugardaddyforme.com, myrichsugardaddy.com, findsugarbaby.com, umm myspace and facebook ( if you wanted to make fake accounts, I mean anywhere there is people... go figure!

ummm i could keep u goin.... lol

OR you can visit the www.esorts.com member Miss. Dreams/ I hear she is interested/

SUGAR BABY LUV is always an option!


~ Spoiled Brat! ~ Miss. Dreams

I was actually being more theoretical in nature, Sweetie. I know where they are. Sounds like you're busy getting your ad readyy! lol

Just never had given any thought to recruiting for the hobby.

I've actually toyed around on a couple of those sites.

Most of the guys there didn't quite understand the concept and it was a huge waste of time...Unless one's just looking for a pen pal.

Furthermore, why would a provider be so interested in some sugar from a "daddy" .... aren't they sweet enough? lol

Well I Personally Don't Get On Those Sites, You Wont Find Me On Really Any Of Them Prob BUUUUUTT I Have Had The Same Sugar Daddy Since About Age 16 or 17! That's How I Got Into The Biz, And I Did Not Meet Him Online, So I Say If You Dress Sexy And You Go Out In Public, Chances Are... Someone's Going To Notice You And... Ask For That Number! And Ummm Yes, We Got Enough Sugar, But Never To Much!

. . . Prob BUUUUUTT I Have Had The Same Sugar Daddy Since About Age 16 or 17! That's How I Got Into The Biz, And I Did Not Meet Him Online, . . .! Originally Posted by MissDreams

I've actually toyed around on a couple of those sites.

Most of the guys there didn't quite understand the concept and it was a huge waste of time...Unless one's just looking for a pen pal. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

So the question would be, Are the ladies who are on those sites really looking for a sugar daddy and enjoy the sex? Those might be the ones with hobby potential and safer than some of the other drama we've experienced here. Or are they just looking for a regular relationship with someone who has financial resources?

BB are you looking for Employment or an Employee? hehehhehee

BB are you looking for Employment or an Employee? hehehhehee Originally Posted by Pamelatoo

Hmmmm. Let's see. For the interview you'd have to wear a short skirt with no panties and a low cut blouse. Oh, and there would be a skills test, which would include at the very least a bbbj.:

Me & Pam aren't doing anything of the sort until we find out if we get pool benefits.

Hmmmm.... you gave me an idea arklookin

AR.. i speculate that many many ladies on the "sugardaddy/sugarbabe" sites do not view themselves as prostitute or selling sex.. they view themselves as have a relationship that has financial perks. Different mindset and perspective for them.. doesn't mean its the right one..but thats what I am guessing.

So inviting a "sugarbabe" into the hobby world might be an offensive suggestion to many of them, they don't view themselves as prostitutes and would be insulted that someone would ask for them to "stoop" that low".

Also, most girls on there most likely aren't looking to have sex with a variety of men for financial reasons, rather 1 guy they feel safe, secure with for longer term financial arrangements. Hobbying would require them to meet multiple guys and while they may love sex, love money, they may not love seeing multiple men an hour at a time..

Most sugardaddy setups revolve around financial compensation but doesn't revolve around sex every time that compensation is made.. bills made be paid, clothes bought, etc etc etc.. but sex doesn't occur for an hour, then a payment made.. money is exchanged and arrangements are made when they are made.. as opposed to p4p.. where money is earned an hour at a time..

sugarbabe setup is less stressful, more direct, more 1 on 1.. hobbying is not.. and what benefit would the guy have who brings her in? he looses the exlusiveness of the sugardaddy setup, etc etc

So the question would be, Are the ladies who are on those sites really looking for a sugar daddy and enjoy the sex? Those might be the ones with hobby potential and safer than some of the other drama we've experienced here. Or are they just looking for a regular relationship with someone who has financial resources? Originally Posted by arklookn4lovn

AR.. i speculate that many many ladies on the "sugardaddy/sugarbabe" sites do not view themselves as prostitute or selling sex.. they view themselves as have a relationship that has financial perks. Different mindset and perspective for them.. doesn't mean its the right one..but thats what I am guessing.

So inviting a "sugarbabe" into the hobby world might be an offensive suggestion to many of them, they don't view themselves as prostitutes and would be insulted that someone would ask for them to "stoop" that low".

Also, most girls on there most likely aren't looking to have sex with a variety of men for financial reasons, rather 1 guy they feel safe, secure with for longer term financial arrangements. Hobbying would require them to meet multiple guys and while they may love sex, love money, they may not love seeing multiple men an hour at a time..

Most sugardaddy setups revolve around financial compensation but doesn't revolve around sex every time that compensation is made.. bills made be paid, clothes bought, etc etc etc.. but sex doesn't occur for an hour, then a payment made.. money is exchanged and arrangements are made when they are made.. as opposed to p4p.. where money is earned an hour at a time..

sugarbabe setup is less stressful, more direct, more 1 on 1.. hobbying is not.. and what benefit would the guy have who brings her in? he looses the exlusiveness of the sugardaddy setup, etc etc Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

Yeah, it may not seem this way to a hobbyist, but you're comparing apples to oranges. Sugarbabes aren't really looking for work, or looking to "sell themselves", that's why they became sugar babes and not providers. Occasionally they cross over though, so you could ask, just don't be standing close enough for a smack in the face

Good Point , Both Of You....

I Figure If They See That Another Sugarbabi Crossed Over, Maybe They Will Look Into It & I Can Help Them Out With Getting Clients & Show Them The Better Side Of Things!!!! .)

Afterall, alot of them do not know about how to get involved in providing, just like me... I was totally against this type of stuff untill I thought about it for 3 months... NOW... I wouldn't change anything.

In the past... I played with http://Sugardaddie.com and http://seekingarrangment.com with quite a bit of success. In my experience, there is a significant percentage of girls on each site (especially "SeekingArrangement") who are definitlely not just looking for one "Daddy"!! There is a lot less naivety on those sites than many think!! There are several who know all about hourly play. There are also several escorts, hanging their shingles on each site too.

I have introduced a few girls who weren't already in the Hourly Escort Game into the Hobby.... they weren't offended at all!! Of course, that was after already knowing them.

So.... to answer your question.... I think it's a fine idea to read thru some profiles.... try to sense the ones who are already playing with multiples.... and pitch them a proposal.... it works.... and sometimes, works very, very well!!

I strongly suggest looking into http://seekingarrangement.com

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