So just wondering if I'm the only one with bad luck

I have tried to be pretty active this month with hobbying. Several times I tried to line up fun but when it comes down to it I get a big let down. I put up iso for a short notice dates, I sent several pms/texts to ladies I have been prescreened with yesterday about availability today and nada. It seems when the stars align and I have a sitter and funds to spend. It seems no ladies are there to reply and play short notice or prebooked. I see some of the posts about it being slow or whatever. But I seriously doubt I'm the only one. Anyway just wanted to vent before deciding what strip club or amp I will get disappointed today. (damn little brain your demanding)