As many of the ladies do, I require references from reputable ladies. The issues i run into is I am extremely picky in who I accept as references. I understand you may have seen the lady as well as many other guys but I have my reasons for not accepting some providers as references. Some examples of reasons I WONT accept a lady as a reference:
I know she is a 'managed' lady
I think she may be a 'managed' lady
She is a high volume provider
She sees newbies regularly
Her screening process is much too simple or inadequate or just weird
Her behavior is tacky and/or shady
She has had more than one negative review
She has a 'new' provider friend all the time
She posts on BP frequently
There are probably more reasons that I cant think of right now but you get my point. I'm not judging anybody by how they run their business but this is my business and I run it how I see fit. I dont feel its safe to have management therefore providers that have management pose a potential risk to hobbyists, and I dont accept those ladies as references. This is a business not a game and I provide for my family and pay my bills with this business. I apologize for the inconvenience this causes for some of you gentlemen but my safety is my main concern, yours should be your concern also. And I understand the business I lose from you guys that are impatient and lazy, but oh well.... Call the ladies that make it simple. I won't put any ladies business out there like that but please make sure you have solid references when contacting me.
I don't ask for personal information EVER, so please just adhere to my requirements and its quite simple to spend some quality time with me.
Thanks Guys and I hope you understand!
Thanks to the ladies who have replied back to me efficiently for reference checks!