GFE

I am very seriously considering becoming a GFE provider.. but first I know that everyone seems to have a different idea of what GFE is and I would like to hear some different views on it...

So what is your definition of GFE?
Fun thread Destiny! Everyone does seem to have different definitions of gfe.

I like to think my gfe is amazing as its personal and real and doesn't feel like 'an appointment'.

I enjoy spooning, pampering of the gentleman, lots of touching, rubbing and caressing, lots of kissing, but soft kisses... Not jamming your tongue down my throat. I always cater to my client, always! I bring warm washclothes to him to clean himself up, lightly run my fingertips all over his body, especially after we have been intimate. And I continue to lightly kiss him all over, especially the neck and softly on the lips. I am definitely not big on a lot of tongue and slobber and trying to figure out which way his tongue is going and whether I should chase it around in a circle or go up and down and before I know it my mouth is wide open and I feel stupid and awkward, not sexy and sensual. Besides I don't want a big chapped circle around my mouth where a man slobbered all over and wiped off all my makeup! Lol

I think being sensual and attentive to the gentleman is the most important thing in being gfe. Lots of hands on and touchy feeliness but not in a robotic way.
Same here Gemma, I don't like the sloppy slobbery kisses... that is what has been stopping me from offering it. I should try the soft sensual kind
Sensual LFKs and DFKs after an hour of DATY and a few of your O's so you can taste, too.
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Kissing both LFK and DFK plus bbbj. Those need to be included if you are to consider yourself GFE
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To me GFE has to include LFK and/or DFK, DATY and BBBJ.
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I am very seriously considering becoming a GFE provider.. Originally Posted by DestinyInKC
well for me GFE is at least BBBJ, which is the only reason I haven't given you a call. I am fine with any girl picking her limits, but I choose which girls I spend my time with.
Yes, bbbj and lfk are a must! Absolutely
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I'm surprised nobody has volunteered to be the teacher (or the subject) for little miss Destiny......so with that, Destiny, I will bravely volunteer my services to be your hobbyist doll. You can experiment any way you like, and you can do what you will with me. No pre-conceived ideas and no expectations.
So what is your definition of GFE? Originally Posted by DestinyInKC
Someone who can borrow my gold card, no questions asked. And expect nothing in return.

Sound good to you?

Thought so.

How's that Greek Islands tour thing working for you?
LFK/DFK, BBBJ, DATY and cuddles are def GFE to me. I have had a few 'ladies' talk about how they dont get how guys would want to see me because I dont 'prefer' to DFK often, but I feel the LFK is/can be just as good or BETTER! Depends on the chemistry between the two of you
Well considering everyones input it sounds like bbbj is a requirement, which I am still not quite ready for lol. Think I will stick to my menu for now and maybe think about that again down the line. Thanks for offering all of your opinions
LFK/DFK, BBBJ, DATY and cuddles are def GFE to me. I have had a few 'ladies' talk about how they dont get how guys would want to see me because I dont 'prefer' to DFK often, but I feel the LFK is/can be just as good or BETTER! Depends on the chemistry between the two of you Originally Posted by Autumnkc

.....being able to DFK the OTHER lips is definitely GFE!!!

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It seems to me that for GFE to work you have to adjust the chemistry set to fit mutual enjoyment. So I have to know what you like and vice versa. That means if either doesn't like kissing a certain way, then there is an adjustment to be made. If it can't be made and it is that important, then like in real life that GFE wasn't meant to be and you find one that is. Or else the provider tolerates it as part of the job. I think you read each others micro-signals so it turns out as noted. In any event sometimes it takes some trial and error to find a good fit. And sometimes you're the teacher. Some people like both dfk and lfk, others prefer one or the other.

I guess you could be partial GFE, Destiny.