ok...i really want to try to be with a lady...

I am bi-curious but scared to death! I want my first to be with someone who is very cool, laid back, has been bi for awhile, can take charge because I don't know what to do! lol

but be ok if I say "no" or have a lot of fears

I would like a guy to be there too , to participate and guide me. someone who has been with 2 girls and knows what he likes to see. and who would make a donation!

I don't want to be with anyone under 25 or over 50. other than that looks don't matter that much.....I guess I would like her to be pretty
I also want someone who thinks I am hot and would want to be with me.

I would like the posts to be out in the open but if you wanna be more private just PM me

and guys....who know me and other girls.....who would be a good match for me?

Sounds like Dallas Rain might be a good teacher whenever she comes back to town.

Just from my point of view in light of all the drama that is going on it might be better if you were to open yourself up to a civilian couple for your first time. Even more along those lines is have it be a couple you have known so you can be more relaxed with them. Leave work out of it to make sure this is something that you would be ok to bring it into work later on if you enjoy it. Guys can tell if you are gay for pay or if you really dig the 3rd party and it makes it so much better for us and you if it is not a gay for pay situation. For your first time at this it could end up giving you a neg review because you may have not be willing to a certain thing or have fears. Also by doing it this way you can get more of what you think is pretty and in the age range of what you are looking for. No this is not me looking for a freebee because I am not in a relationship, and you don't know me. It is just my thoughts on the subject that you brought up. However you end up doing it is totally up to you and I wish you the best of times with it.

I'd be more than happy to assist you with your first FFM 3sum Angel - directing and watching you with another woman would be very hot indeed!

thanks for the advice Phoenix...I don't really know any couples....being divorced for awhile does that. I see what you are saying though. I don't want a bad reputation over one attempt at something new. I just hope I can find the right girl.....I think I have found the right guy

Angel, try Club Erotica. They're very laid back. The later, the better.

Allie, I think Club Erotica closed down

thanks for the shout....I am flattered!.......I am 50 {maybe too old for her?}...I do think she is HOT!

I would suggest
Sovana is visiting soon.........http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=836966


also

Sandra Dee......http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=44165


Hope ya find somebody baby!!

thanks for the advice Phoenix...I don't really know any couples....being divorced for awhile does that. I see what you are saying though. I don't want a bad reputation over one attempt at something new. I just hope I can find the right girl.....I think I have found the right guy Originally Posted by Angel in KC

Your welcome Angel.

Angel,
I just sent you an email. I have the perfect lady for you, Will be sending you another email with her picture.

I would suggest that you try it first in your private life.

The reason I say that is because if you book it as a session with a client and another provider, the other provider must be paid, the client is taking a huge risk in paying the both of you and it ending badly.

I am bi-curious but scared to death! I want my first to be with someone who is very cool, laid back, has been bi for awhile, can take charge because I don't know what to do! lol

but be ok if I say "no" or have a lot of fears

I would like a guy to be there too , to participate and guide me. someone who has been with 2 girls and knows what he likes to see. and who would make a donation!

I don't want to be with anyone under 25 or over 50. other than that looks don't matter that much.....I guess I would like her to be pretty
I also want someone who thinks I am hot and would want to be with me.

I would like the posts to be out in the open but if you wanna be more private just PM me

and guys....who know me and other girls.....who would be a good match for me? Originally Posted by Angel in KC

Angel call me...Ill give ya some pointers on what works and for sure what doesnt on a woman......ya know if you want??

Angel,now you're speaking my language! I have some great ideas on this and after 20 doubles,I love matching up ladies. Chemistry is everything and there are several local ladies that you would get along well with.

LOL disregard my earlier post. I reread the original post.

God I just adore threADS.

Couple years ago my ATF was in a similar situation and asked me to help. I came up with a girl that I thought would be perfect. Similar ages, similar personalities. The other girl was definitely bi. She had told me she had mostly girlfriends in high school. So... got it set up, only to have my ATF chicken out with just a few hours to go. She was just really intimidated by the whole walk in the door, say hi and wam bam thank you mam. I had tried to get just the two of them to go to lunch together. Hoping that would help. It just didn't work out.

Couple months later we traveled together to a meet and greet. I got a room and the night before we decided to have a party. I invited some board buddies. Most of whom where clients of hers. She invited a few providers she had talked to on ref checks and stuff. All in all a fun night. I could tell she was really hitting it off with one provider. She followed me into the bathroom one time and, well... let's just say she did some stuff that made it impossible to say no to her. She liked the girl, really wanted to do the two girl thing, and asked if I was ok with it. YUP! Hustled the rest of the crowd out the door and we got down to it.

She really had fun. She was still a bit apprehensive so it wasn't the most intense sexual experience of her life. But we all had a good time. And she was glad to get that first one under her belt. Before I knew it, she was traveling with other providers, doing doubles and even hooking up with girls in her personal life.

So, there's an example of what not to do, and what works. If you find the right guy, and the right girl, I would def recommend that you and the other girl spend some time together first. Head out for drinks or whatever. You will likely be much more comfortable with the physical stuff if you've connected a little bit. And if you don't connect, better to know that ahead of time and maybe find somebody else.

Hope it all works out for you.

MP