Appropriate attire

This might seem like a silly question, but what would be the appropriate attire for us guys to show up in for an appt? Or more specifically, is it ok to show up in a suit or business wear? i have this concern of looking too out of place if i show up at an incall (ie low end motel) after leaving the office. Or maybe i'm just paranoid...

how do you women prefer we dress?

I always like dressing up as a scarecrow.....keeps those pesky birds away. And with an envelope, marked with a big bold red marker, DONATION

Seriously, I'm thinking as long as you show up on time, with the proper donation, not acting like a jerk and not smelling like a scarecrow....well beyond that, you might be over thinking things

And of course, the same in return. She does in fact confirm your appt., does in fact text/calls you in a reasonable time for directions, doesn't leave you sitting in the parking lot,does not have a room that a 3rd World person would be embarrassed about, also does not smell like a scarecrow, etc, etc.

BTW, really not trying to be a smart ass....just some friendly advice to do your research, build your references, think w/ the big head...at least until showtime....and then just relax and have fun.

A suit is fine. Could always say you are my attorney or something if someone asked...

Yeah, you will probably get more looks for following a girl half your age back to her hotel room than from whatever your dress level.

I treat all my encounters like a first date with a hot girl that I want to impress,(Freshly showered,shaved and trimmed where need be, dress nice,fresh breath, etc.) because I may want to see them again. I want the lady to feel the same way. PS a suit at a motel 6 maybe not but I will still dress nice but a suit at a nicer hotel no problem.PS just take the jacket and tie off if you are uncomfortable.

As a guy who does his playing during the weekday (either early morning breakfast meetings or extended lunch meetings), I will take the suitcoat and tie off prior to arrival, so I'm just in pants and dress shirt.

Long dark trench coat cowboy hat covering eyes big boots nothing to suspicions......

I don't mind the suit at all especially if your wearing a tie darling wear what you feel comfortable in love that's what matters :x

Long dark trench coat cowboy hat covering eyes big boots nothing to suspicions......

I don't mind the suit at all especially if your wearing a tie darling wear what you feel comfortable in love that's what matters :x Originally Posted by sweet.countrygirl

ok Tori, I will show up in nothing but a black duster and cowboy boots.

Think it be time for a hay ride and picking some wild flowers I got a spot way back in the woods we can go to darling

ok Tori, I will show up in nothing but a black duster and cowboy boots. Originally Posted by Grizzly

Now that's some sexiness right there darling but you need the hat to ill wear it
I'll hold you to it lol ill b wearing mine as well lol

Who wears a suit and tie anymore? You guys must be real old

Ties can be very useful my darling
Age is just a state in your mind only u can decide to feel to act young or old my love

I wear a suit and tie! It would be the last thing I want to show up with! My attire is what I would use to go to a strip club, shorts with easy access and a beer!

TBH it depends on the hotel you're coming to ..... sometimes a suit is stuffy and too much. Really just look clean and try not to look out of place. Some hotels are more business-minded (get more business types), some are more family oriented, tourist oriented etc.

A barrel with suspenders and a sign stating I'm a John.