Spinning from Annie Calhoun's thread..
I think there should be an "another realm" area in each state. Many guys have " out of the ordinary ", GFE fantasies and fetishes. I have done several Dom sessions, but I consider myself a GFE provider, so I keep the two separate. I even created an alter ego, Hedone. I did this so if a guy books with "Heidi", I know he wants GFE. If he books with Hedone he is probably a sub.
If I can avoid discussing details before a session, I feel more comfortable. There is a strong LE presence here.
If we had discussions locally regarding "another realm", it would help providers and hobbyists break the ice and plan for a kinkier type of date.