Taboo?

Spinning from Annie Calhoun's thread..
I think there should be an "another realm" area in each state. Many guys have " out of the ordinary ", GFE fantasies and fetishes. I have done several Dom sessions, but I consider myself a GFE provider, so I keep the two separate. I even created an alter ego, Hedone. I did this so if a guy books with "Heidi", I know he wants GFE. If he books with Hedone he is probably a sub.
If I can avoid discussing details before a session, I feel more comfortable. There is a strong LE presence here.

If we had discussions locally regarding "another realm", it would help providers and hobbyists break the ice and plan for a kinkier type of date.
ilovedatass's Avatar
Damn.... I thought Tanner was coming back.
An excellent idea!
It has been suggested on the national board, here http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=850174
but it doesn't mention city speific areas, which would be very helpful.
As it has been said many times, the hobby is about variety and this would be a great start to a little known, and often misunderstood, aspect of the hobby.
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good idea!
everyone knows I border between gfe/pse/tantric & naughty kink....but it would be nice to be able to discuss certain "taboo" type subjects in our local area without discrimination.
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good idea!
everyone knows I border between gfe/pse/tantric & naughty kink....but it would be nice to be able to discuss certain "taboo" type subjects in our local area without discrimination. Originally Posted by DallasRain
Without discrimination? I think the National Board handles it a little better than the local folks would. But, I was a little surprised that Annie's TS post didn't garner more negative attention than it did.
She was a little Gem, wasn't she. Nope, I a just talking about getting freaky. What is your freak number ILDA?

I am probably just an 8. I would say Dallas is a 9.5.

Damn.... I thought Tanner was coming back. Originally Posted by ilovedatass
Rex, what is your freak number?
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Rex, what is your freak number? Originally Posted by heidilynnla
6.5? Things on my bucket list, just haven't had the resources or time. I'll get to an 8 or 9 eventually.
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She was a little Gem, wasn't she. Nope, I a just talking about getting freaky. What is your freak number ILDA?

I am probably just an 8. I would say Dallas is a 9.5. Originally Posted by heidilynnla
I think the question has been raised before but I'll ask the admins and see what they say about adding a similar forum here.
I'll let u know.

Dallas 9.5? Think you might need to move the decimal point over to the right.


Take a look at how Calysta Syn handles thos. I think her alter ego Freida Syn is even posted as a link within her profile and she has two websites dedicated to her gfe and freak egos. Think she separates the two notions very well so that clients understand what to expect.

And damn I was hoping to see Tanner again too.
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Is there anyone besides me that believes by majority if a lady is half GFE type service.......and half Domination BDSM fetish friendly.......more than likely her GFE is moreso harder to contrive. Well not harder.....just less believeable and submissive in a sense, as opposed and in stark contrast to her more dominant and more believable feel in BDSM. Anyone else share this theory with me.....or am I the only one that notices this distinct difference.
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My freak number: 20. Oh well.
If she is a real good actress, which providers usually are, she can pull off both. I doubt when money is involved its her true self. I know several who do it, and can be anything you want as long as the money is right.

I think you look way too deep sometimes.

Is there anyone besides me that believes by majority if a lady is half GFE type service.......and half Domination BDSM fetish friendly.......more than likely her GFE is moreso harder to contrive. Well not harder.....just less believeable and submissive in a sense, as opposed and in stark contrast to her more dominant and more believable feel in BDSM. Anyone else share this theory with me.....or am I the only one that notices this distinct difference. Originally Posted by gimme_that
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i actually enjoy what i do....i love most of my sessions.

sure there may be a few guys who i have to 'pull a monkey out of my butt" when i see them...but those are very few and far between.....i think a guy can tell when the girl is faking or acting.
Believe it or not, the GFE is my natural personality. There are so many levels of domination and mine is very light. You can call it acting or contrived, I am providing a service.