Bondage Tips

Sometimes it's fun to let someone else take charge. And that's where bondage comes in.

When it comes to sexy-time me, that’s a different story. I still know what I want (Kissing! Fun! Pleasure! Orgasms!), but I don’t always know how I want it. And sometimes I don’t even want to think about wanting it. I just want it done to me by another human being. And sometimes when it’s done for me, or at least planned out for me to enjoy, I can easily submit to my partner.

Would love to do it for sure..
Truckman1's Avatar
Sounds great
The Three C's of bondage are as follows:

Comfort, Control, Circulation.

Comfort: You are going to be there a while, so make sure you aren't in an awkward position.

Control: Related to the first, in positions other than laying on your back, make certain that any body part that is bound can be easily controlled and balanced. Eg: arms bound behind the back, then held aloft. A momentary loss of balance, and there goes a rotater cuff! Ouch!


Circulation: The most important of all. I really don't recommend using hand cuffs, not even the furry ones, unless you aren't planning on being bound for very long. The metal cuts into the bone at the wrist and can cut off circulation to the hand. Ouchie. Rope is best, but it is also important to be aware of circulation points. Don't just wrap the rope once around the hands or feet. That puts all of the pressure focused on a single point, and loss of circulation can happen very quickly. Instead, make several revolutions around whatever is being bound, wrists, ankles, etc and distribute pressure over a broader area. Be sure the rope does not overlap itself, and that the rope fits loosely but securely. Once the rope is tied off, feel fingertips or toes for warmth, and observe to make sure that she skin is not going dusky or blue.

Bondage can be wonderful! But it can also cause harm, so its important to use some common sense and care!

This is a thread from the Another Realm section. There are some AWESOME bondage pics here to give you some ideas of the limitless variety of ways a person can be bound. Some of these pics are pure art!

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=760908
My you two girls are up early today!
Guest012814's Avatar
In my experience, bondage is all mental. As Sins allured to, without a level of comfort with the dominant partner, it's almost impossible for the sub to give themselves over mentally and let the dom control them.
The activities are merely a by-product - for me it's all about the mental connection so the sub feels safe and open to give up the power and control. Once that happens the fun really starts!
Ahhhh to be in subspace. Mmmm
Thanks Sins very helpful thread babe...
Enchanterlingum's Avatar
None of that nice soft nylon rope either.

Sisal is where it's at. Nice and itchy, like church pants.

None of that nice soft nylon rope either.

Sisal is where it's at. Nice and itchy, like church pants. Originally Posted by Enchanterlingum
MOCHAakaMOCHA's Avatar
I don't let many do it but I have a fave client really into ropes in particular and he's mastered all these tying techniques.
He tied the ropes around my arms and my torso and roped up by big ol' tits it was a sight to behold when he was finished. My nipples were so ridiculously sensitive because of being tied up....unbelievable feeling when he'd brush his tongue over them or a feather.
I couldn't move and I liked it (but there was a actually a way to get out of them if I needed to). It was very sexy and I was very turned on by the thought of being controlled and he could do whatever he wanted...I wanted him to fuck me while I was all tied up lol (but we didn't).
Tigerfan1977's Avatar
Trust...that is by far the most important thing. I would recommend hesitation in doing bondage in the hobby, but its what you feel comfortable with. Keep in mind that when you're bound you have no control over what is done to you. While that is part of the turn on, it is also the danger.
Always...especially with ropes/scarfs... have medic sheers on standby incase of emergency need to remove. If u use something else...make sure there is an emergency release button
I wanna do it bad. Im sure ill love it.
Enchanterlingum's Avatar
I haven't tried that sort of thing since high school. I had a long-term girlfriend back then that was a good egg, and much more out there than I was.
The most important C was left out.. Consensual..

I've dabbled in that realm for a while.. I would highly recommend the book 'Different Loving' by Gloria Brahme. It's an excellent read for both the novice as well as the experienced.

Safe, sane and consensual.....

Have fun!!
xo
Jazz