PSA for the hobbyists...

Okay.. so I was a little aggravated earlier but everything was remedied so I'm not going to blast anyone. BUT! I will say this. And I'ma be blunt because that's the only way I know how to be. Those that have seen me know I'm a sweet woman and don't mean any disrespect to anyone on this board.

The providers on this board are escorts. Meaning when they are in your presence you are to pay them for their time. It does not matter if you just hang out on the couch for two hours and pick each other's noses, once that girl walks through your door the clock is running.

Now, I've had one situation where I didn't expect a donation for my time because the client I saw is a very good client of mine and has spoiled me a lot whenever I do see him. We went to a public function and had a great time. He did however bring me gifts which are always extra appreciated, but never expected.

If you guys are looking for a real world type of date, there are many, many, many websites where you can find girls who aren't going to charge you to hang out with them. I am a great GFE but because this is my JOB and how I make my ends meet, please do not be disrespectful of that and expect freebies.

Much love to you all. I'm super tired so I'm going to hit the sack. Again, please don't take this as disrespectful, but I felt like there needed to be a reminder of the main rule of this hobby. xoxoxo

"The providers on this board are escorts. Meaning when they are in your presence you are to pay them for their time. It does not matter if you just hang out on the couch for two hours and pick each other's noses, once that girl walks through your door the clock is running."

Ima be blunt to because frankly my give a fuck is no longer functional. Please refrain from lumping every single "provider" in the same category as yourself. There is validity to what you have stated in THIS POST however there might be one or two of us out there that dont appreciate you speaking out on out behalf. I for one am happy to state publicly that I have made some amazing friends within the hobbiest community and to those individuals there is NEVER A CLOCK RUNNING . If I was known to have given money BACK TO A GENT OR TWO WHO DID NICE THINGS FOR ME or to have picked up the tab at the bar while enjoying stimulating conversation would that shock you? Im sure it would. Well guess what? I have done just that on several occasions and Id do it again if it struck my fancy. I for one... am NOT SHALLOW and it has served me well in my affairs thus far... and never in the year or so Ive been here have I had to run a review special or post on backpage. The concept of caring for those who care for us should have SOME MERIT in the eyes of us all... admittedly society as a whole deems that concept less important these days. Sad and shitty but true... and Yes this is a hooker site... vastly corrupt with jaded perception and grossly overinflated egos.. and YES MEN UTILIZING OUR SERVICES ARE EXPECTED TO PAY FOR THEM!! Duh! However there is a HUMAN ASPECT to the people behind these handles and there are exceptions for some of us!!! If you have had an issue with your clientale abusing their privlaged time with you... BUCK UP AND HANDLE IT DIRECTLY!!! Dont come and MAKE A WHINY POST blasting them all. Shit! If im being mean ir starting drama so be it. Im sick of the "Golden Pussy" pretense. And honestly,.. so are a few others.

Sorry you have to say the obvious Tracy; some guys just don't get it - and never will.

I've always understood the hobbyist/provider dynamics, and alway appreciate every minute you young ladies allow me to share with you...

XOXO

BigAl

I am with Ginger on this one. While I respect your decision to keep this on a completely pay basis, not all ladies feel the same way and I suspect that who they spend time with is based on the person involved. What they do for one they might not do for another. YMMV. Your obligation is to make your rules clear so your customers know what to expect. You did a good job of that with your post.

WOW! Cat fight where's the popcorn!

I am so tempted to post a response...

Aw hell. Who am I kidding?

I must confess I considered Tracy's post as a self-alert of sorts for me. The ladies I have shared time with know I don't always get it done in 60 minutes. 30 minutes doesn't even get the rod warmed up. Well, there was that one time with a UTR temptress... four times, under 60 minutes, that body, that look... what a memory. Anyway, it might be 58 minutes or it might be 65, but if someone is obviously watching the clock it takes even longer. Sort of like the myth "a watched pot never boils." Do I compensate for this issue I have? Most certainly I do. But I also am much more careful now in selecting companions to avoid the self imposed pressure. Yes, this is my issue and I bear it well.

There are those who choose to go beyond the business transaction and want friendship and there are those who don't. I have seen both ways work out well for the parties involved. So, there is no wrong answer here. Just do what you are comfortable with.

It is a personal choice and, consequently, a personal responsibility.

I am going to agree with ginger on this and while I would never expect "freebies" of any kind there is a human aspect to this "hobby" as well we are all human beings so friendships may be made as well as other situations and there is when it encompasses the entire spectrum, if the situation is personal and applies to a specific instance then the entire provider population should not be grouped into the ideals of one provider and her viewpoint.

Ginger has once again shown herself to be a warm, life loving human being. Tracy obviously has a cash register where her heart should be. No disrespect intended.....

I'm one of those human "things" which was mentioned...I have met Tracy and I found her to be personable, warm, and not a watcher of the rolex. I'm sure we all at times have things that happen which make us say or do things which gets on each other's nerves since sometimes or even mostly there is not a report built prior to the meeting. I have also met for dinner or even other events to gain that report but have always planned for that contingency. I believe Tracy was trying to help out other ladies with passing information to us gentlemen and with no other unintended consequences. I too do not like to be stereotyped as a man so I understand your feelings Ginger. I'm different than most and I'm happy to be that way. TGIF!

Bear

+1 Ginger!

I figured I'd get backlash. Oh well, my give a fuck meter was long ago broken.

To clarify, this is a gent I had seen once prior. If he had been a regular I had seen on multiple occasions then maybe I would have considered seeing him on a friendly basis. But we had not even built up that repoire yet. I didn't call any specific man out, you don't see a username do you? And no, I do have a heart, but again, this is how I make my ends meet and get my goals accomplished and I'm asking for that to be respected. I do not watch any clocks, all of my clients know this and have never been rushed out on or told they need to get out. My reviews speak highly of me. What you do Ginger with your clients is on you, but guaranteed it's not much different.

I appreciate those that understand what I'm saying. If you don't I'd be more than happy to discuss in further detail.

Besos

Oh and my pussy ain't gold, it's platinum. (I'm just being a smartass, lighten the F up, it's Friday)

And Mossman, no disrespect taken. If I had a cash register where my heart was, I'd be on backpage with a shitty incall selling this platinum pussy (haha) all day long with absolutely no care except that. But alas, I see maybe two or three clients a day, if that. Just saying. XO

May your pocket book be as empty as your cash register heart. No self respecting man would schedule you after reading you post!
I hear Backpage is lovely this time of year.