Why is it

...so hard to find good reliable references?? I've been in the hobby since back on the old site. I've been off and on since I've joined here but more on lately. I've seen a few ladies recently but I just haven't had the time to write a review. I just wish I could have a couple very reliable references I could count on to get verified with....

Reviews help but are not necessary. See established providers who will vouch for you.

Plenty willing to do so, imho.

I agree with ck. I could care less if you review. I ask for the names and/or handles of your references then contact them myself, directly. I only see gents when I receive positive feedback from their references. Lurkers aka those who never post are some of my best clients.

Well I do have reputable references, from probably some of the better well established providers in SA. It just seems like lately I've been having trouble getting verified because they never reply. I understand that they have personal lives and all so they can't always reply in a timely manner. I think I might just go with joining p411.

Desperado, I loooovvvee P411. I've sent PMs to girls and they just wont respond. Or respond a week later. SMDH. But P411 is just easier. You click an okay once and you're good to go.

P411 makes screening so much easier...a worth while investment.

The problem I have right now is that most of my references have gone utr, retired, deleted their account or its been so long since I've seen them I hate using them for a reference. I only see one lady here in Houston, who has gone utr, but have seen several in San Antonio. I had p411 but my luck with it was not good. I had 6 okay's when I let my subscription expire. I think I only got one appt using it. Eccie has been better for me.

I agree that P411 is awesome and would help solve your dilemma. Or you can come see me. Just a suggestion.

KKA

I hate to ask those i've seen to verify me.
They are nice enough and tell me they will do it for me when i've asked them at the session but I just can't bring myself to intrude on them to do it.

To see Slave G, I would overcome my personal feeling about it though.

It's not intruding precious_b... it's important for all of our safety.

It's not intruding precious_b... it's important for all of our safety. Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

Exactly!

Our estimated time for a reference check is 1 min or less!
Disclaimer: If I'm awake

I know it is, Tracey.

Trust me, I have an open policy for any Provider to check anyone that i've done a review for. It is just that I like to stick with someone I like. And the favourites that I have known are mostly gone. I have somewhat current ones but I don't like to bother them. If a potential ATF comes up, i'll do the measures to make a person comfortable with seeing me.

P411 is ACES as far as I'm concerned. It makes the entire deal so much easier...especially if you find yourself on foreign soil and have the opportunity to dip the proverbial toe...

Be forewarned though, P411 spoils you. I've passed on visiting with several providers because they weren't on P411...I just didn't feel like going through the hassle of the archaic screening process again. It just seemed like too much effort. ..

Gina and crew run a hell of a show over there and I will not hesitate recommending them to anyone who could benefit from using their service.

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Desperado, I'm exactly the same way. I hate to ask providers for references, even though they said they don't mind and I haven't had problems. p411 is just so much easier and makes me feel safer. I don't like to see providers not on p411(or I also check date-check). Alot of the time when they can verify, your p411 (especially with some ok's) the screening is much simpler .

You sound like you want provider's who care about safety instead just accepting anyone. Now you to need prove your o.k..