Is it the Hobby or the Sex?

Is it the Hobby or the sex? Well to me lately have been all about the Hobby, the act of looking for all these pretty ladies, to daydream about fucking in all the positions, to hunt for Great deals, to sneak out in the middle of the day to make an appt w/a provider. Wow that's pretty exciting, the only downside is that half the time it doesnt work due to both party's schedule or even a NCNS.
Is it about the Sex? After the Tiger Wood inccident, I told my SO why he cheated bc he doesnt get enough exciting BOOTY, well it worked and she been giving it up more than the usual. The funny thing is the intention of Sex is not the same. My SO is a pretty young Spinner, but the sex doesnt seem to be the same. Will this Hobby thing hurt me in the long run w/my SO? Sometimes I try to resist for a couple of days but it doesnt work. Looking for the Hunt!
Its all about the Hobby to me! I enjoy the encounter of getting to know and see somebody that I've been fantasizing about. The act of having 1 or 2 hours to get to know them and tell them how U wanna be Fucked! I just wish sometimes that I can snap a finger and get some booty. LOL That would be awsome but we all know that aint gonna happen. So is this an addiction or what? I know I check this site every other day.
So Happy Hobbying & Thanks for all the info!

My SO is a pretty young Spinner, but the sex doesnt seem to be the same. Will this Hobby thing hurt me in the long run w/my SO? Sometimes I try to resist for a couple of days but it doesnt work. Looking for the Hunt!

I'm at the opposite end of the spectrum For me, it was about the sex and I was never satisfied with hobby sex. Since I now have an SO, I do not hobby. (Before anyone mentions it, my SO knows I used to hobby, she knows I post to escort boards and she doesn't mind.)

I'd say both for me. I enjoy the research, selection, the initial contact, finding an excuse to get out and that moment right before they open the door is just as much as the act itself.

I agree with JuxJonny. It would have to be the Hunt for me.

It is the hunt and the addiction of striving for more information, more beautiful ladies and hot seductive sex that I don't get from my SO any longer.

For me it is the hobby. I love the research and thrill of doing the unacceptable. My SO is in her mid 50's and still turns heads of guys half her age. As gorgeous as she is she is even better sexually. I guess it's the thrill of searching and finding new experiences that keeps me in the hobby.

I too enjoy the hunt, but never forget it is about the sex, specifically the BBBJ and other things I never get with my SO.

The hunt and, as the the OP pointed out quite well, the daydreaming is part of the allure of this fantasy we call a hobby. I love it, until I come up empty handed. Since I have decided to try and only use EECIE for a while and I live in Ohio, almost a thousand miles from the epicenter of the board, I am coming up empty-handed, but I trust some Texas lasses will stop by Cincy on their travels?

For me it too is both, but mainly the sex. I have no interest in fucking someone my own age. I want to live out a fantasy. Having sex with a young, hot, sexy girl is my fantasy. I live it quite often now in this hobby of ours.

It's the sex. Not just having sex. But, having it how I want it, when I want it, and especially with whom I want it that is addictive for me.

For me it's the companionship. I enjoy meeting new lady's and getting to know them a bit. Being able to play While enjoying their time doesn't hurt.

I enjoy the hunt as much as the sexual acts myself

It's about both...one without the other would be meaningless to me.

I wouldn't give two hoots in hell about the hunt. For me, it's all about the session. Maybe that's why I hate strip clubs.

For me its the hobby and picking out the selection of the type of women I'm looking for which changes often. If I wanted sex I would just wait for the bar sluts or a match.com hookup.

The session is it for me, but the HUNT is part of making the session fulfill what I want, so the Hunt is part of the session. Plus the Hunt is so easy now, why not Hunt for something new, even if the last provider was awesome.

Like Ron White said If you have seen one naked women, you want to see another

The a prevailing factor for me is that the session is "me time" and I am more free to do what I want and a good provider doesn't dog your performance. I am not saying I just lay there, but there is no pressure/requirement to make fireworks for her. Sometimes, I want to make her squirm and scream and will go to great lengths to make her cum, because lets face it, we are guys and we like to feel like we are great lovers. Other times, I like to be pampered and made to feel like I made her day (which is why I love my AMP Ladies).

So depending on what I want, the HUNT is part of deciding what type of sex I want, but if there was no sex (oral or other) at the end, I would tire of the HUNT pretty fast... I mean that would be like dating and I prefer shopping

-do the dew