Meaning Of GFE...

Just A Thought & Convo I Had With 2Clients...

I believe GFE should be a feeling not a check list of what a girl does/nt do!

If you get the feeling from a girl, that you are cared about, remembered and have a great time where you laugh together, talk about whatever, the touching feels more and better, the smell of each other before and after the caressing, the movements, the act itself just feels right! isnt that what GFE should be?
Not a check list of BBBJ, CIM and all that other stuff! Shouldn't you get the sense of security and sensualness, instead of feeling like another "John" or ATM

GFE Should Be An Experience NOT A Service!

I call it ATF.

Hoping to see one soon that I might possibly give that honour.

I guess you could call it that as well lol

What a few girls make you feel that way? then all of them are your ATF?

What if I specialize in giving you the Girl Friend Experience? no bbbj or anything... but you really felt for a brief moment in time I was your GF?

AR,
Looking for the Provider Du Jour is *not* the reason i'm in the Hobby.

When I first started, I was very uncomfortable around those that I didn't know or met for the first time. It took me a few visits till I was accustomed to their presence.

Those that I could relax around and not be jumpy were the ones i'd see.
And that was usually the only one i'd see.

I have found that over time that I have become reasonably at ease when meeting new people though.

But i've only had one ATF. A couple that could have been but situations arose.

IDK what it would take to "specialize" in the GFE.

The "girlfriend experience" generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional call girl or escort offers; it varies widely from person to person, however. There is a focus on not just having sex, but also having more of a comprehensive experience.[3]
Often sessions last longer and are "no rush," which means the call girl spends the full advertised time rather than rushing out after the sex is over. Common activities usually offered by GFE escorts include kissing and/or french kissing, cuddling and foreplay.
A call girl advertising the provision of a "girlfriend experience" is implying that she provides deep french kissing (DFK), "full service" (intercourse) usually with protection, and fellatio and cunnilingus, both with or without protection. Advertising a "girlfriend experience" is sometimes used by call girls to promote business.

Some may see it as a checklist but those things on the activities list are part of the experience. To me, GFE is more than just the physical part. It's what happens before and after. Like Guy says, the rush aspect of it is gone. I also think that "GFE" does not happen with everyone we have a session with. We don't always go in looking for that type of session. So, it really depends on what you go in looking for.

I've had guys tell me I am GFE and some have told me PSE... I say I am just me.

Different strokes for different folks... I'm not a robot so I can't just turn on a GFE or PSE button... I always advertise and tell people I am very YMMV... That's why I don't like when guys tell me they read my "reviews" and they want so and so... Well, um, it doesn't work that way... Not with me anyway.

Oh I totally agree! GFE should be non rushed & it is YMMV! Im naturally really flirty bubbly and giggly,(but every guy will have a diff experience) but if you give me a weird vibe it turns off, and then I become like "ok lets do this" but still try to turn the vibe around and give my all lol

Alot of my regs in AZ & Las Vegas all say Im more GFE than any other provider they have ever seen, that offer more with their GFE...
Thats what got me thinking about the meaning of GFE and how it has become more a service than an experience...
In Cali and some of AZ GFE means BBBJ, CIM, and all that stuff! I see here in TX its more of the LFK, DFK, caressing, snuggling, foreplay and such!

Think Ima Like Texas ;p

Guess you have some amazing skills Ms. AkihlaRose

SF

"Guess you have some amazing skills Ms. AkihlaRose"

We will find out

San Antonio: 21st - 24th

I guess you could call it that as well lol

What a few girls make you feel that way? then all of them are your ATF?

What if I specialize in giving you the Girl Friend Experience? no bbbj or anything... but you really felt for a brief moment in time I was your GF? Originally Posted by AkilahRose

I'm my case that's more like S.O.E....I get
NO
OS (oral sex) from my
SO

At the end of the session or when booking a return, do you forget or not care that there's a financial transaction? That's a GFE provider.

A GFE experience to me is when it just happens, you both know where the line is and you both know what the other one likes. Also the appreciation factor and it is more than a business transaction.

At the end of the session or when booking a return, do you forget or not care that there's a financial transaction? That's a GFE provider. Originally Posted by PDid

I don't forget and I do care lol... But that doesn't make it any less sexy or real... When I enjoy a man... I enjoy him until I never hear from him again... Which has happened before... even though we (guy/girl) had great sex and always shared good vibes at the end of the day it's a business and I am mature enough to know that what we "share" is sex and when the "relationship" ends with no warning that is to be expected because he is not my boyfriend and I am not his girlfriend.

If I don't enjoy him I don't see him again and if he doesnt enjoy me then he doesn't see me again... Simple stuff.

You both know where the line is and you both know what the other one likes. Originally Posted by travelerman

Agreed.

Also, the appreciation factor and it is more than a business transaction. Originally Posted by travelerman

I always appreciate... I don't like to discuss the $$ part of the session... I make sure all that is taken care of before we ever meet... It takes away from the fantasy and makes me feel like a damn hooker or something.

But if he doesn't leave donation... Or doesn't give me the correct amount...Sweet lil' Karla turns on bitch mod and guy is quickly reminded that it is (at the end of the day) a business transaction... A girl's gotta eat y'all!! Lalala

Its about the total experinece...starting with the initial contact to the thank you text