Book Review; 'She Comes First'

A well written book devoted almost entirely to DATY!

From Amazon: > Dispelling the widely held myth of genital penetration as the apogee of sexual pleasure, Kerner, who holds a doctorate in clinical sexology, offers this witty, well-researched manual for "consistently leading women to orgasm" through cunnilingus. Loaded with practical anatomical information (the clitoris has 18 distinct parts, and more nerve fibers than any other part of the human body) and graphic line drawings, the book also touches on the less mechanical, more psychological aspects of oral sex, including the three assurances every woman needs from her lover to feel comfortable: (1) "you enjoy it as much as she does"; (2) "there's no rush"; and (3) "Her scent is provocative, her taste powerful: it all emanates from the same beautiful essence." Since studies show the average woman takes about 20 minutes to reach her first orgasm during a typical sex session, while men take a mere four minutes, Kerner advises men to delay their own climax and make oral sex "coreplay" ("the substantive phase in which sexual tension builds, culminates and then releases itself through the female orgasm"), instead of foreplay. Breaking down six stages of coreplay, from the "first kiss" to orgasm, Kerner speaks to both beginners and more seasoned lovers. His candor concerning his own bout with sexual dysfunction adds a compassionate tone and credibility to this decidedly pro-female methodology. <

I could see Providers buying it in bulk and giving it as a favor for a session.

Recommended!

Thanks for the book review Ron!!
Hope I see you around NOLA sometime soon
I miss you

I got the same book review from another source. I have read the first few chapters but only talked about the anatomical parts - the 18 parts, nerve endings, I have not read the part where technique is concerned. A large portion deals with the phsycology of sex for a female, but my thought was "when appleid to the hobby, not much a relational connection happening there, merely physical." I will continue to read.

I read another book back when I was married concerning the caressing of the female body and sexually arousing areas of the female body. I have gotten no complaints in that department and actually usually get told that my touch was amazing. So, I am trying to improve by also improving my oral skills, that's why I got the book. Yes, I like you ladies to have fun too!!

In my - ahem- research - I find that the ladies are very different in what they like and how they like it. Some love the rougher play while others want the soft slow build up to climax. To eahc their own, I certainly do not mind a lady telling me what she likes, in fact just like you ladies I prefer that, so I can make your time pleasurable as well, just me.

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Ooooooooooooo Outdoorsman, I want you even MORE now!

Ronmet, it is great to see you checking in! I hope all is well in your neck of the woods.

You don't say....

Veeeery interesting. LOL.

Greetings Ronmet! Good to hear from you again. Glad to hear you're keeping up your research.

Ronmet, if you need a research subject......... : )

I see that Ronmet is having too much free time on his hands.

I think dallasrain is the perfect treatment for him.

Ronmet, welcome back. I've been doing what he decribes for years, the Lady always cums first and often. Great reading but have to hide it from the SO. LOL

Here ya go.
RAR'd. (need winzip, winrar or 7zip to unpack)In PDF. (need Adobe).
Put the http:// (no w's) in front.

rapidshare.com/files/103885549/ShecomesFirstSpunkinsUp.rar

Will you be giving exams on how well we studied the text?

For this, I'd only do oral exams.

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Dilbert babe...lol---I love oral exams--I have "aced" every one so far...lol!!!!!