I will keep this short for now. I have had a few sessions with a young woman who happens to be a stripper. Very, very good looking. Always had a lot of fun. Her place(s) - apartments - were always slightly upscale.
Come to find out through casual chat that she has a protective order out on an ex SO. I looked it up. Scared the shit out of me. She tells me that the matter has been put to rest. The order has been in force since mid September.
Q. Given the frequency that these things go violent, am I crazy to to see her in private? Getting shot by some crazy ex, and from what I read he is crazy, would be hard to explain to my wife.