*sigh* advice?

well guys ive been here on the forums for awhile never actually met anyone due to hectic work schedules and everyday real world

i know this is gonna sound silly but i really dont wanna meet random newbie providers to get "street cred" so to speak
i know that it comes with the scene and well....for lack of a better way to put it it.... sucks
its like saying i have to spend hundreds of dollars just to be able to meet a provider that gets my motor running when i could have spent the money on her from the get go
same time i havent seen any newbie providers that catch my attention enough to meet them nothing personal ladies

im not here to get with every provider on the site nor do i plan to i wanna be able to meet one provider that i can go relax with nothing more nothing less

yet to become a vip member etc due to im not here all the time makes no sense to pay for something i dont use on regular basis

maybe my best bet is to take my chance on BP or some awful place like that

any advice is welcome im sure im gonna get hell for this but ehh

I'll join your thread of misery!

Just too damned busy here as well with work and RL.
Everytime I get a quiet period where I actually have some time to go play,
it seems to always coincide with a big security problem in the SA area.

Patience is a virtue, right.....right?

Gotta pay to play unfortunately, you could just get a bng from some newbie friendly providers then work your way up. No matter which way you go, it's expensive. And with so many fish in the sea, I would be willing to bet a lot that you will settle on just one! So jump on in, the waters warm. Happy hunting.

Some girls do alternative screening like job verification or background checks , maybe that would work better for your situation.

Some girls do alternative screening like job verification or background checks , maybe that would work better for your situation. Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

well... no because at the same time i dont know the lady well enough to give her that option what if she holds it against me one day not saying it will happen but you never now

I'll join your thread of misery!

Just too damned busy here as well with work and RL.
Everytime I get a quiet period where I actually have some time to go play,
it seems to always coincide with a big security problem in the SA area.

Patience is a virtue, right.....right? Originally Posted by joshharris86

yes at best i maybe get about 4 to 5 hrs a week of free time sucks i have to spend half of that looking for a provider that will actually see me

well guys ive been here on the forums for awhile never actually met anyone due to hectic work schedules and everyday real world

i know this is gonna sound silly but i really dont wanna meet random newbie providers to get "street cred" so to speak
i know that it comes with the scene and well....for lack of a better way to put it it.... sucks
its like saying i have to spend hundreds of dollars just to be able to meet a provider that gets my motor running when i could have spent the money on her from the get go

So what's the real question here? What are you wanting?

same time i havent seen any newbie providers that catch my attention enough to meet them nothing personal ladies

im not here to get with every provider on the site nor do i plan to i wanna be able to meet one provider that i can go relax with nothing more nothing less

yet to become a vip member etc due to im not here all the time makes no sense to pay for something i dont use on regular basis

The cost for premium access is very little for the ability to have full access to the formuns if you are not going to be posting reviews to keep up with free premium access. If $275 (whatever) is too much for lifetime membership then you don't need to be in the game, just saying....Its a small amount paid for such data that normally you wouldn't have

maybe my best bet is to take my chance on BP or some awful place like that

This contradicts the money that you would spend here in Lifetime Membership to have good reliable data to make a good choice, BP is fun for those that are willing to take the chance, and lose the monies for a TIFTT aspect. One nightmare with one bad BP girls could pay for you Lifetime Membership here.

any advice is welcome im sure im gonna get hell for this but ehh Originally Posted by deos68

NO your not, just think completely not just in the moment.

yet to become a vip member etc due to im not here all the time makes no sense to pay for something i dont use on regular basis
maybe my best bet is to take my chance on BP or some awful place like that Originally Posted by deos68

By VIP, I'm assuming you mean Premium Access. Even with that it doesn't help you with verification. If you don't have the time to first see newbie friendly providers, you may be SOL.
Seeing providers from BP, CL or someplace else will not help in verification either

Gotta pay to play unfortunately, you could just get a bng from some newbie friendly providers then work your way up. No matter which way you go, it's expensive. And with so many fish in the sea, I would be willing to bet a lot that you will settle on just one! So jump on in, the waters warm. Happy hunting. Originally Posted by beamj75

Sound advice.

well... no because at the same time i dont know the lady well enough to give her that option what if she holds it against me one day not saying it will happen but you never now Originally Posted by deos68

I was going to suggest P411, but if you're not willing to give any info to anyone, I can't see how it will work out for you. I'm sure you understand that the ladies have to protect themselves as well. For all they know, you could be LE looking to set them up or possibly something worse.

Good luck, I hope you find what you are looking for.

There's not a provider here whose lips wouldn't feel good wrapped around your cock. Find a reliable, newbie-friendly provider and go for a BnG. Make sure she's willing to provide a reference for you. Many ladies here will accept a single reference, if it's positive and from a respected provider. Then write a review and you've got PA access for 6 weeks.

If you like living on the edge, go to BP and take your chances, but that won't get you anywhere with the ladies here.

Either way, you're gonna pay. After all, that's what we do here!

Also think about getting verfication at P411, find a provider that interest you and peaks your desire. Contact her via P411, even if your a newbie she at least knows that you were verified by Gina and Group at P411, somewhat make you safer than the newbie that just contacts her directly.

You have to start somewhere, and think of the sort of like building a business, as you know the saying goes:

"You have to spend money to make money", same applies here in the hobby, "you have to spend money to have pussy"

If your not willing to lose or spend money here or plainly be a cheap ass you have no need to be in this hobby, cause it will cost you even if you are prudent in all your selections.

well... no because at the same time i dont know the lady well enough to give her that option what if she holds it against me one day not saying it will happen but you never now Originally Posted by deos68

So u just want to completely bypass any screening but not have a bp type experience.

well... no because at the same time i dont know the lady well enough to give her that option what if she holds it against me one day not saying it will happen but you never now Originally Posted by deos68

Do you really think that there are not tons of other guys here that have to be private / discreate, hell two of my best friends that hobby are big names, that you would know their family names in a second if you saw their names some where.


Somewhere you have to take a chance, the best bet in my opinion is starting some where like P411, then go from there. If not, I suggest you pick up another hobby.

Hi Nikki! Check your PM's, please.

Deo if you become active on the forums here,you'll start having a board persona,which helps as well. You need to dip your feet in the water at some point. Good luck

Damm you Alt you're always a step ahead of me. JK

("Hi Nikki! Check your PM's, please.")

I just met a really cute 20yo. spinner for an outcall. (see my last review) She didn't care about references bc she said "I had a lot of reviews". Like one said "become active in the forums" and get your handle visible.