This hobby is a many splendid thing that has a lot of risks but, if done right, many rich rewards. That said, what's your motivation for participation?
As a monger are you chasing the idea of the perfect experience? Looking for intimacy that you can't find with your SO? Just trying to get off as much as you can with the hottest chicks you can find? What brings you back every time?
As a provider, is it great money good sex? Does the thrill of guys lusting after you keep you going? Do you like providing pleasure in the world?
Be honest (or at least amusing!)