Apparently I missed the whole thing. Say what?
I am not aware of the situation, but I do know that MOST men seek variety. Some like fit girls, some like BBW, some like brunette, some like flat chested, some like big titties, you get it. Who the fuck would cheat on Tiger Woods' ex-wife? Jennifer Anniston? Maria Shriver? So it does not seem to matter how hot a lady is. And as a provider, a good portion of my clients are in love with their wives, and their appearance. That does not play a role in their decision to hobby.
Originally Posted by Holly Love
For me, looks have nothing to do with it. I troll this site to help determine what a lady is like inside. There are some really bad women around the hobby; and there are some really nice women. It is up to the individual to do the necessary homework. Some of the best looking women have the worst attitude. They seem to think that because of their looks they can expect to be demanding on everyone else.
For me, the hobby is a tool to keep my sanity when there is a need to fulfill my male needs vs. my male responsibilities.
I have the love of my families from three successful marriages. But, I have noticed that none of the women in my personal life have any idea of the stress that men go through to provide for a family and meet the responsibilities of being in charge at work.
However we do it; guys need to be able to blow off some steam. Does that include sex? Maybe yes, and maybe no. Some women just don't understand why guys go hunting or fishing; duh, so they can get out of the house and take a break.
A previous employer of an isolated job site I worked on offered the benefit of flying guys out of the country and back to civilization about every 6 weeks for a few days of R & R: so that we could "blow our tubes".
JR