I aspire to be one, so tell me; what makes a girl high class in your opinion?
Inquiring minds want to know!
I aspire to be one, so tell me; what makes a girl high class in your opinion?
Inquiring minds want to know! Originally Posted by christina86
How many of these "high class" threads are there?
awl4knot has some good points. I think CJ7 is confusing hot with high class.
But like most marketing issues, the answer lies in putting yourself in your "clients" shoes. Pretend you have the money to pay a lady $500 an hour for multiple hours and maybe pay for a 4 star hotel room too. You can do this without spending the rent or car payment money. Think about how such a person might live. What kind of things would freak them out? In a word - visibility. This isn't their life. This is an escape - a diversion. The last thing they want is anything that looks out of place for their surroundings. They want to have a good time, but blend in. People like this inhabit the same social strata. That guy at the next table might be a customer next month. They don't want to be remembered by them as "the guy with the bimbo" at the next table. There is plenty of time to get freaky in the bedroom, but not in the lobby or over dinner.
If you want to learn how to be classy, go observe people like that. Go to the lobby bar at the nearest Four Seasons or Ritz Carlton. Observe how people dress. Observe how they talk and act. Follow that lead. Originally Posted by pjorourke
How many of these "high class" threads are there?
awl4knot has some good points. I think CJ7 is confusing hot with high class.
But like most marketing issues, the answer lies in putting yourself in your "clients" shoes. Pretend you have the money to pay a lady $500 an hour for multiple hours and maybe pay for a 4 star hotel room too. You can do this without spending the rent or car payment money. Think about how such a person might live. What kind of things would freak them out? In a word - visibility. This isn't their life. This is an escape - a diversion. The last thing they want is anything that looks out of place for their surroundings. They want to have a good time, but blend in. People like this inhabit the same social strata. That guy at the next table might be a customer next month. They don't want to be remembered by them as "the guy with the bimbo" at the next table. There is plenty of time to get freaky in the bedroom, but not in the lobby or over dinner.
If you want to learn how to be classy, go observe people like that. Go to the lobby bar at the nearest Four Seasons or Ritz Carlton. Observe how people dress. Observe how they talk and act. Follow that lead. Originally Posted by pjorourke
Its all in how a woman carries herself. Are you as comfortable in the atmosphere of those who frequent the Ritz and places similar, and just as comfortable at the local watering hole with the working stiffs? Both spend their hard earned money on an unforgettable experience with a lady. If you can pull that off, you should do well!Also good advice!
Be a chameleon! Blend in your surroundings! Originally Posted by Nicolet
If you want to learn how to be classy, go observe people like that. Go to the lobby bar at the nearest Four Seasons or Ritz Carlton. Observe how people dress. Observe how they talk and act. Follow that lead. Originally Posted by pjorourkeInstead of the lobby bars, I would watch the people in the hotel restaurants. Often times the lobby bars are meat markets. A few years ago I went to the Ritz Carlton in Dallas with a couple of friends. That lobby bar was a huge party bar. If you want to learn how to pick up men, that would be a great place. If you want to learn how to blend in with a date, not so much.