GFE, PSE or BOTH?

ESwho'snext?'s Avatar
While I know that both of the terms GFE & PSE are very subjective. I am wondering what you folks think or expect when a provider advertises both? And would it be rude to ask a provider what she means when she advertises either one?

I have had many GFE and was looking into some PSE. But does PSE mean she has been in porn or she looks like she has? Or is it more the energy she brings to the table? Or maybe it's the menu that makes it seem this way?

I really just wanted to throw this out there and see what you all thought.

Thanks,
ESWN
DallasRain's Avatar
I list myself as gfe/pse & fetish with a twist of tantric!
I think that since my menu is pretty wide open and I don't limit myself to one specific activity that am able to give each session the right kind of "uniqueness" and "special touch" tailored to each client's needs & wants!
PSE can mean many things to different people, as you said. Some say PSE includes this and that, but I know of real porn stars who DON'T do this and that!
It depends on the perception of the hobbyist.
There are many hobbyists who don't really care if a girl is GFE or not. Most would agree that GFE includes kissing, and a few other things, so personally I consider myself a GFE provider. I might be PSE lite! LOL
ESwho'snext?'s Avatar
Thanks for the input Ladies.
Would it be rude of me to ask a provider why she thinks she is PSE?

And for me the kissing in a GFE makes me feel like you want me. Lol
SknyDiva's Avatar
I will tell you why I'm PSE! I love to fuck and suck.
I'm openminded and want to get the most from you, no Greek.
It's not my thing. I love doubles! Gangbangs! Face fucking!
What else is there in the PSE ? Ask me I may try it.
Raw sex! Straight up pounding that Pussy!
We all have a different answer for PSE.
SknyDiva's Avatar
I love to kiss.
getsum69's Avatar
I like the combination. Depends on where the mood leads us.
It's not a good idea to discuss those types of things if you haven't met a provider, in my opinion. You should check out her reviews.
ESwho'snext?'s Avatar
I love to kiss. Originally Posted by SknyDiva
And I am sure you have never been turned down.

Face down maybe...lol
ESwho'snext?'s Avatar
It's not a good idea to discuss those types of things if you haven't met a provider, in my opinion. You should check out her reviews. Originally Posted by heidilynnla
Thanks, I kind of thought that. But better to ask here than look silly and maybe miss out on a great time.
ES,Maybe we could just forget the label. You decide what YOU would like,then ask the lady if she is down for that or not.Then you know exactly where you stand and there is no wondering what GFE or PSE may or may not include,because it probably varies from provider to provider anyway.
For me, PSE is more "we are here to fuck, lets fuck, how do you want it?" But, some things can be off the menu. And then she proceeds as if you were the best dick in history, as if she were performing for a camera.

GFE - at the start - more gentle, small talk, kissing - though it can certainly heat up into a PSE.

PSE - goes right there - GFE - gets there with a smile.

Truly - its a GFE not a GF - they shouldn't be claiming a headache when you arrive
SknyDiva's Avatar
Face down maybe...lol
Ass in the air!!
DallasRain's Avatar
Face down maybe...lol
Ass in the air!! Originally Posted by SknyDiva
mmmmmm and i so luv lickin cum off that sweet ass babe
bigclitluvr's Avatar
Good thread! Not all ladies are as easy to deal with as Sknydiva and Dallas!

I try to be upfront, via private messaging, about requested day & time, activities, rate, etc... Don't graphic, use acronyms (bbbj, dfk, etc...). Some offer more services than I am inquiring about. I usually ask her rates.

If a provider replys for me to read her reviews, I move on! All sessions are not the same Some hobbyist can stretch the truth, or even lie in reviews. I don't think she wants me to fine the most incredible review writen and expect that! Or how about I find the review with the lowest $! Don't even try to have this discussion with a provider, you will get too much drama! Just move on!

I once had a provider go through and read my previous post! She took the time to find out about me! Incredible! I wanted to marry her!!!

Good Luck! Remember to treat ladies with respect, they deserve it!