Taking Control and Losing Control...

I like to take control of my sessions. In a few cases I have had providers totally take control and have their way with me. For the most part it was pleasant and a great experience but it was out of the box for me. Has this happened to you and how do you feel about "control"?

That's such a subjective question, it all depends on the personalities and their particular moods. Being in the provider seat, I like to assume(ha ha) I have control over the time I spend with gentleman when it comes down to it.

My personal preferences side with the man taking control(my submissive side) but only to a point that I feel comfortable(where my control comes in).

On occasion when a gentleman is looking to relax and let me guide the date I'm ok with that as well, it just doesn't come quite as naturally to me(your feeling of out of the box).

When you're out of your "box" is it uncomfortable or exhilarating?

When you're out of your "box" is it uncomfortable or exhilarating? Originally Posted by DDMcGee

Yes!

Yes! Originally Posted by Still Looking

Is that a bad thing? I personally like the adrenaline rush... I told my boo I wanna role play since hobbyists are always vanilla with me.

Is that a bad thing? I personally like the adrenaline rush... I told my boo I wanna role play since hobbyists are always vanilla with me. Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

Your boo? Is that a ghost or imaginary friend?

hehe its a pet name for someone I adore. It does involve scaring though

I have had two ladies (separate sessions) take control and it was a blast.

Blindfold, restraints, domination, all good clean fun.

Had one session where I was in control. I used a blindfold, restraints, a feather duster, cucumber, candle wax, and ice. That was a really good time as I ate or played with her and if she came without permission, then I got to use the ice or hot wax as a punishment.

Also, if she came twice without permission then the cucumber was placed into her ass, and the rest of the session she could only cum with her ass filled.

That was a lot of fun.

Since then the sessions have been quite vanilla, mostly due to not having built the trust relationship to the provider's required level.

I have had two ladies (separate sessions) take control and it was a blast.

Blindfold, restraints, domination, all good clean fun.

Had one session where I was in control. I used a blindfold, restraints, a feather duster, cucumber, candle wax, and ice. That was a really good time as I ate or played with her and if she came without permission, then I got to use the ice or hot wax as a punishment.

Also, if she came twice without permission then the cucumber was placed into her ass, and the rest of the session she could only cum with her ass filled.

That was a lot of fun.

Since then the sessions have been quite vanilla, mostly due to not having built the trust relationship to the provider's required level. Originally Posted by Doglegg

Hard to find a good cucumber these days!

Who says that you can't have both?

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=89998

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Who says that you can't have both?

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=89998

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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Shameless threAD! I thought you were above such, SKF.

*chuckles*

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Who says that you can't have both?

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=89998

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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

I've never had a second handle.