These are some wonderful food for thought!
Thanks everyone.
What got me thinking was the peculiar situation Friday. It was a day of dreadful ice. Someone posted a thread asking who was working and I responded.
That day was crazy with responses!! I was turning people away.
My room-mate offered a "Winter Storm Warning Special" rate Friday, not realizing that it was an awesome hobbying day with no discount required. Rather than trying to guess which days would be tough for hobbyists to get out, it would have been awesome to let the market tell us.
I was also thinking that if guys could put money into their request it would have helped them in this way: I prefer someone I've seen before over someone new. I prefer someone with P411 membership over someone with provider references.
Yet, if a gentleman who was new to me and who didn't belong to P411 offered a higher price, he could have moved up the desirability scale LOL!
On the other hand, if it's a dead week, someone offering a lower price could become more desirable
The reason I say it's the mirror or hobbyists using ISO is that a hobbyist who gets a PM from various providers can weigh so many criteria!
Is it someone he saw before and enjoyed?
Is it someone new he's been wanting to see?
Is her incall near him?
Is the rate good for him **AT THIS MOMENT/on this day*** (rate he can pay may fluctuate)
It's the instant information aspect of it. He knows who is available in that window and what her exact rate right now is.
(ebay was a bad choice of comparisons)