Dealbreakers?

So, I as I get older, the list of things that would stop me from having sex with someone gets smaller. I actually laugh at some of the things that have dropped off the list, been added over time and have always been there.

Smoking used to be a deal breaker, but now I can tolerate it.

I used to only sleep with guys within 5 years of my age...now, age is just a number.

The one thing that remains is poor grammar. I just can't do it. But I've gotten better about poor spelling at least!


On that note... It's HOBBYIST not HOBBIEST. Please, please, please. Learn it. Spell it. Type it.

Hobbyist = someone who enjoys a hobby

Hobbiest = the one having the most hobbs (if there were such a thing)

So, what are some of your deal breakers?

For me it would be the use of fake pics, but this is pretty much BP girls that do this, other than that, lack of hygiene.

Haven't run into a "deal breaker" yet, but I do know that if the door opened and the lady there was in NO WAY even remotely close to the pictures I'd seen and used to make my decision to see her, I'd turn around and leave.

Same if there was any evidence of drugs, smell in the air, track marks, incoherence of the provider, etc.. same deal, turn IMMEDIATELY and leave.

Again, none of this has happened to me yet and probably won't as I do my research and only see ladies from Eccie, PREFERRABLY with a P411 account also, but that's been negotiable.

My Deal breakers are the BBBJ a lot of clients are really pushy about this I just don't feel comfortable with doing it. I am new to this business and when new clients find out I don't provide this service I lose out on clients.

Sorry sweetie, but I am not paying cash for a cbj.

I understand how you feel a lot of people feel that way but my health comes before any amount of money stds are very real and because I come from a Health care background I prefer not to partake in BBBJ .

So, I as I get older, the list of things that would stop me from having sex with someone gets smaller. I actually laugh at some of the things that have dropped off the list, been added over time and have always been there.

Smoking used to be a deal breaker, but now I can tolerate it.

I used to only sleep with guys within 5 years of my age...now, age is just a number.

The one thing that remains is poor grammar. I just can't do it. But I've gotten better about poor spelling at least!


On that note... It's HOBBYIST not HOBBIEST. Please, please, please. Learn it. Spell it. Type it.

Hobbyist = someone who enjoys a hobby

Hobbiest = the one having the most hobbs (if there were such a thing)

So, what are some of your deal breakers? Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I've learned to look past the grammar thing. If I didn't see providers with poor to middling grammar, I'd be awfully lonely, albeit a great deal wealthier.

Poor hygiene should go without saying, but smoking remains an absolute deal breaker for me...while I have seen providers who smoke, I usually ask they not do so close to a session...I find her smelling like an astray wholly unappealing.

Everything else is negotiable.

For me it is crown or Kween spade tattoos. I was involved with a owned/managed woman once and never again if I can help it.

Smoking is still a big deterrent for me. I hate having the lingering smell of ashtray all over me.

And in case all y'all smoking guys didn't know this, listen up:

Smoking makes your SPUNK taste like FUNK. And makes me think twice about swallowing it (regardless of how bad my insomnia is)...


http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...errerid=118368

Haven't run into a "deal breaker" yet, but I do know that if the door opened and the lady there was in NO WAY even remotely close to the pictures I'd seen and used to make my decision to see her, I'd turn around and leave.

Same if there was any evidence of drugs, smell in the air, track marks, incoherence of the provider, etc.. same deal, turn IMMEDIATELY and leave.

Again, none of this has happened to me yet and probably won't as I do my research and only see ladies from Eccie, PREFERRABLY with a P411 account also, but that's been negotiable. Originally Posted by RedLeg505

None of this has happened to me yet and probably won't as I do my research and only see ladies with a P411 account and good reviews.

Bad hygiene, ghetto talk (white or black), Sorry Kia no bbbj, Upselling, fake pics, limited menu, previous drama, LE issues and one I added lately, man mades. I know that's a lot but I have been doing this for awhile now and decided to see only ones that are good for me. Nothing against anyone else choices. Getting picky in my old age. lol

Poor hygiene, "under the influence", I prefer nonsmoking or minimal (similar to LMx point on smoking, the taste permeates and I prefer not to taste that in her juices! ), any signs of management ( not talking about amps or agencies here) , pre cursor rules that indicate ill not enjoy the time. while not entirely a deal breaker but close is no BBBJ and / or no kissing. Not knocking choices, just saying its mine. Reputation for being mechanical also gets a skip.

Maybe not all of them but that's the ones I can think of right now...

I'm sorry, what was the question? My ADD kicked in and I became deeply immersed in the "insomnia" thread. It's a great read.

My deal breaker is just plain dishonesty. I've said before, when that door opens and the woman I expect to be there is not, then I know that the party is just going to get worse.

I agree with the smoking thing. she needs to cover it up or it makes me sick

I understand how you feel a lot of people feel that way but my health comes before any amount of money stds are very real and because I come from a Health care background I prefer not to partake in BBBJ . Originally Posted by KiaKiss

I'm dying to say something here but don't want to hijack my own thread ;-)

But statistically, you are much more likely to get a few things via CFS than BBBJ.
But if you have a health care background, you already know that.

But there are hundreds of other threads about this topic. Kia, if you'd like to discuss that, I'd suggest a fresh new thread!

Xoxo