HOW THINGS HAVE CHANGED

i miss real gentlemen, men that wanted a real womens time, men that would give all for my everything...maybe the women or the viagra messed thiings up i dont now.....but im sad,...i want to be spoiled and have a reason to spoil, want to meet and greet before i hop in bed...raise the mood u know ...want to dnce for u or shower with u first.....etc maybe im trippin

i miss real gentlemen, men that wanted a real womens time, men that would give all for my everything...maybe the women or the viagra messed thiings up i dont now.....but im sad,...i want to be spoiled and have a reason to spoil, want to meet and greet before i hop in bed...raise the mood u know ...want to dnce for u or shower with u first.....etc maybe im trippin Originally Posted by MixedUniqueQueen

Oh lovely , do not despair.... This is still the way for many !

The market for quickies and hh has gotten much larger it seems. The market for multi-hours and beyond still exist, but has dwindled...hate I missed the ASPD days.

Well, the sentiments expressed by the OP work both ways.

As a hobbiest (and in my civilian world) -
I am tired of text-speak;
I am tired of misuse of grammar;
I am tired of lack of spell checking before one hits send.

Personally, how a person presents themselves in their ads or board threads is the thing that I remember and would determine whether I move on.

Just my 2 cents worth ........

Well, the sentiments expressed by the OP work both ways.

As a hobbiest (and in my civilian world) -
I am tired of text-speak;
I am tired of misuse of grammar;
I am tired of lack of spell checking before one hits send.

Personally, how a person presents themselves in their ads or board threads is the thing that I remember and would determine whether I move on.

Just my 2 cents worth ........ Originally Posted by jframe2

What is amusing to me is that so many of the ladies who wish to be considered as HDH have a problem with some or all of the above.
Personally, since my retirement about 5 years ago, I have reduced the amount of my hobby budget somewhat. My travel schedule has also reduced my available hobby time. Still young in body and mind, I am working it out.

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U dnt lik wen I tlk lik dis? Y? U dnt thk it sxxxy? UR 2hard 2plzzzz!

U dnt lik wen I tlk lik dis? Y? U dnt thk it sxxxy? UR 2hard 2plzzzz! Originally Posted by LilMynx69

i miss real gentlemen, men that wanted a real womens time, men that would give all for my everything...maybe the women or the viagra messed thiings up i dont now.....but im sad,...i want to be spoiled and have a reason to spoil, want to meet and greet before i hop in bed...raise the mood u know ...want to dnce for u or shower with u first.....etc maybe im trippin Originally Posted by MixedUniqueQueen

No you don't! You say that in public but your actions say something different (not literally YOU as I don't know you). Nice guy, gentlemen type are being taken for granted because you know 'you got him' and he'll be there. While the assholes are fucking you and getting all your attention. By day you're cussing the asshole out but at night you're sucking his dick. I'm slowly believing what many of my single buddies (from my barber to professional engineers) are telling me and I'll be that asshole soon. Just takes a little more training. It is what it is. But feel free to continue with your rant. Just my unsolicited thoughts.

Well, the sentiments expressed by the OP work both ways.

As a hobbiest (and in my civilian world) -
I am tired of text-speak;
I am tired of misuse of grammar;
I am tired of lack of spell checking before one hits send.

Personally, how a person presents themselves in their ads or board threads is the thing that I remember and would determine whether I move on.

Just my 2 cents worth ........ Originally Posted by jframe2

Couldn't have state it better myself jframe2!

For the record, I've met more wonderful, respectful gentlemen in the last few years I've been single than any other time in my life.

From guys rushing to open doors at my office, to gentlemen here responding to my posts or sending me some of the sweetest PMs I've ever read.

I'm also of the opinion that most guy assholes turn that way because of the disrespect and poor treatment they received from bitchy women. The cool thing is, most of them respond well to a bit of consistent kindness from a lady and quickly get back on the right path.

Just my $.02.

xoxo,
LMx

i miss real gentlemen ... Originally Posted by MixedUniqueQueen

Waxing nostalgic at 23 is a peculiar sport. Do tell us more about "back in the day."

...I'm also of the opinion that most guy assholes turn that way because of the disrespect and poor treatment they received from bitchy women. The cool thing is, most of them respond well to a bit of consistent kindness from a lady and quickly get back on the right path.

Just my $.02.

xoxo,
LMx Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Very intelligent take LilMynx. You may be right about that. We'll see if a female 'white knight' will be able to bring me back. 'Cause I'm headed to the dark side babe.

Waxing nostalgic at 23 is a peculiar sport. Do tell us more about "back in the day." Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

My thoughts as well. Kinda young to be longing for the old days...

hi sweetheart

love everyones comments appreciate yall...

Gentleman, your avatar is hil-arious!!!! lmao!

Just my thoughts on the topic. Since I've moved to Northeast Texas, I have never met so many gentlemen. I have been offered a relationship with being well taken care of and spoiled, along with just going on a date. I've never accepted the offer since I am business type female. The asshole men are the ones who don't want to pay, who can't really afford you just doesn't want to admit it so when you turn then down they get upset and began calling you out your name. That's a typical broke asshole for you. Also you have some gentlemen who think because their respectful ect. that they can overstay their visit. So the point is you need to just be you, don't express your wants to need a type of guy that in the end you may not want. Most men i've met, they are respectful if you are. Most men are busy but offer the option of showering with you or afterwards. Offer a body rubb before to make your client feel relaxed. There's so many ways to gain respect. One thing i know men dislike is a woman to rush him, be disrespectful r have no interest in what she does during the appointment.