Time Wasters - Any of the ladies willing to tackle the subject openly?

I tend to :get requests" from the fan base of devoted followers I have and as I've discussed a few times raising a little heck down here shortly a couple of you ladies PMd me a couple of names of guys they consider to be notorious time wasters and asked me why I never call out a guy.

I tend to think I am rather hard on some of the guys myself but it seems a reasonable subject to discuss..

I tend to refer to them regularly as "looking to get their heads patted" because they really cannot afford the hobby, tend to see between 1 to 4 girls over the course of a year and somehow STILL manage to attend EVERY Social (How is that CK? Don't they have to have "current" references?) and find ways to monopolize time. find ways to coax dinners or lunches, always there to offer favors etc.

basically their whole social interaction with ladies has been reduced to those that sell their time.

They are typically rather charming and more than one lady invests a lunch or a dinner after meeting them at a social only to find they become a little pushy and obsessive looking to date you and not pay you.

This is nothing new to me... I've seen it a lot over the years.....

Guys have no problem frying the ladies so here is an opportunity to discuss if this IS a problem, to name a few names if you are brave enough, or to PM me the names and the story if not.

Ask around... I have NO problem if I verify it with a few ladies of calling the guy out for you.

I find it rather entertaining...

I also never name the sources and I am known to be rather credible.

If you do NOT want to name a name but still find it to be an issue please comment....

Guys that recognize yourself in this post...... LOL..... Well..... As Martianman likes to say...

"I can make you famous!"

Ha! Good thread... This is why I don't offer 30 minute dates at all anymore and also the reason why I hardly entertain 60 minute appointments.

Serious question... What do you get out of 'calling out' some guys on behalf of providers who don't or won't do it themselves? Don't they have their powder room, other info share forums and if it's bad enough to publicize, even an alert (for the pushy, no $, wanna date guys)?

As for socials, I'm sure ck has his requirements, as do you in Austin but those don't belong on here, anyway. Right?

As for a provider pm-ing you about someone wasting THEIR time... Perhaps the gent went a different direction, chose to see someone else or just decided they didn't want to see them, for safety reasons, personal preference, or whatever, after communicating. Seems if you want to call someone out, you should have both sides, or your just another WK ingratiating yourself to said providers....

As I said, serious question... I'm really curious.

Looks like you struck a nerve! First timewaster exposed?

Post less, screw more. Hummmm I'm thinking....

Looks like you struck a nerve! First timewaster exposed? Originally Posted by Sexecutioner

i was wondering when you would return.

i have to admit i find this thread interesting :

Netx9..a time waster? That is fucking hilarious, furthest thing from the truth! Sex, you truly are a hide behind the computer pussy!

Only one hiding is you.

Ha! Good thread... This is why I don't offer 30 minute dates at all anymore and also the reason why I hardly entertain 60 minute appointments. Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

Can you expand on that? What is it about the short appointments that lends itself to this particular issue?

Do they overstay their welcome? Expect a lot of conversation in the days that follow? or believe that in those 30 minutes the two of you connect in some manner and belong together?

Netx9..a time waster? That is fucking hilarious, furthest thing from the truth! Sex, you truly are a hide behind the computer pussy! Originally Posted by VidaRoho

Thanks! Time waster? Seriously?!?!

It was a genuine inquiry, attempting to spur some discourse... Guess Sexecutioner doesn't know that big word. From someone hiding behind a new account, time waster seems more appropriate for you.

No I don't waste time! I'm thinking if you ask VidaRoho out to grab a beer, you probably wouldn't be wasting anyone's time

Serious question... What do you get out of 'calling out' some guys on behalf of providers who don't or won't do it themselves?

Entertainment. I already answered that.

Don't they have their powder room, other info share forums and if it's bad enough to publicize, even an alert (for the pushy, no $, wanna date guys)?

They do... But as one lady said, some of these guys get idolized by other guys here in the forum and they should know the guy is actually a weasel!

As for socials, I'm sure ck has his requirements, as do you in Austin but those don't belong on here, anyway. Right? It was a question asked. Posted guidelines have something to do about references needing t be current and maybe 3? I'm not sure.... But a guy that hasn't seen but 4 girls in a couple of years should have dropped off the list...... Sure... maybe he just never reviews.... once again... not my question.... I am sure all the wusses willjump in to play though!

As for a provider pm-ing you about someone wasting THEIR time... Perhaps the gent went a different direction, chose to see someone else or just decided they didn't want to see them, for safety reasons, personal preference, or whatever, after communicating. Seems if you want to call someone out, you should have both sides, or your just another WK ingratiating yourself to said providers....

As I said, serious question... I'm really curious. Originally Posted by Netx9

Try reading the OP again and it's pretty well described.... This is not about blowing a lady off for a session.... these are guys that have no intention of a session.... they want the time and attention of the ladies.... can't afford the price of admission.

You seem to put down your money on occaision.... Wouldn't it irritate you to find out that someone else is wasting her time while you are trying to book her?

Looks like you struck a nerve! First timewaster exposed? Originally Posted by Sexecutioner

I would not describe him as a time waster... Not with 32 reviews in a year.

He does seem to desire a lot of interaction and attention from the ladies though. My opinion would be no social life outside of the hobby.

Almost as sad but not the topic here. ladies SHOULD waste a little time on him. Doesn't seem like a bad business decision.

I would not describe him as a time waster... Not with 32 reviews in a year.

He does seem to desire a lot of interaction and attention from the ladies though. My opinion would be no social life outside of the hobby.

Almost as sad but not the topic here. ladies SHOULD waste a little time on him. Doesn't seem like a bad business decision. Originally Posted by Whispers

Thanks, I think!

I'm not from SA so i find a bit of a net presence there goes a long way in terms of references and familiarity for future visits. Plenty of social life outside of the hobby, fwiw. As for your social life... Over 9000 posts since 2009? I guess between posting and hobbying, maybe you have little time for a social life out of the hobby... Just my opinion, to use your polite phrasing.

He does seem to desire a lot of interaction and attention from the ladies though. My opinion would be no social life outside of the hobby. Originally Posted by Whispers

Sounds time consuming.