Oral Techniques

I love oral. However I have to look for the girl that really enjoys it. They all seem to like to lick the stick, but seem to not want to receive oral treatment Many are very sensitive and jump right up when you score on their clit. A few enjoy a lot of clit work. I have a technique of grasping the button with both lips (not biting) and lick it softly with my tongue. If a girl goes that far, she loves it. I find some would rather penetration by the tongue which is fine but not as rewarding and limiting. I ran into a girl last week that refused my licking her clit and kept pushing me to lick her ass, which was fine, but is kind of limiting.

I am into giving pleasure as much as receiving. I guess I am kind of curious why so many
working girls are not into receiving oral or what techniques they liked best. A soft lapping tongue would be my guess, but I really like to ride it with a stiff tongue.