How to eat pussy!

First, let me ask anyone who doesn't like to eat pussy or have your pussy eaten please do not reply to this thread! I respect your preference, but this thread is not about you, it's about those of us who do!

The purpose of the thread is for all pussy eating lovers - both givers and receivers to share ideas on what works and what doesn't!


After being told by multiple providers that I should give lessons in the art (I know some are just BS - but when I look in a provider's eyes and see the flame of passion and pleasure I know I've done well), I will present these few thoughts and reflections on the subject!

A few years ago I had a provider say, "let me suck on your little finger!" She gently placed the tip on her lips and sucked very gently, very erotic! She then said, "now do that with my clit!" I've tried this with varying success and at times added a flickering tongue to the mix - which really seems to work wonders!

Most important be receptive to directions and feel what reactions you're getting. If the girl is not reacting, you're doing something wrong, or she's just cold!

After she comes it's very important to not stay too long - after she cums, just very gentle soft touches of the tongue - or maybe kiss her inner thighs - do that for 2 or 3 minutes and she'll be ready for another round!

Now, some girls really get off on the flickering tongue! But never ever ever make sounds like a motor boat - as in blowing. If you make a sound it should be like schlirping like you would a slushy!

Eating pussy like a champ requires being sensitive to what the girl reacts to. Girls that enjoy having you go down on them will give you signs by their reactions, and some verbally and some with a gentle push to get you to go lower or higher. The problem you're dealing with in eating pussy is the clit and vagina have the pee hole in between - no girl wants you to fuck with her pee hole, it doesn't feel good - but the clit and vagina are hot spots!

The coup is to insert your finger, or two and start massaging the G spot and then work on the clit with the lips or tongue. One trick is to insert two fingers, move them against the G spot and then slowly pull them away. What that does is gently pull on the G spot and can make some girls go wild!

The idea of sucking on the lips is lame!

Anyway - as you can see, I dearly love making girls go wild with their orgasms! I think it's a power trip to know you can bring a girl to a wildly satisfying orgasm!

If you want to learn more make an appointment with a girl who loves DATY and ask her to guide you!
golfnwine's Avatar
I LOVE DATY. When the provider has an O, it stimulates me to enjoy the experience and gets me ready. Very seldom am I not able to get a provider to have an O.
Usually she will provide me with a sensational experience as well. It seems to set the tone to return the favor.
handyGiraffe's Avatar
That is a good question..every woman is different..there is no cookie cutter...



Most important be receptive to directions and feel what reactions you're getting.

Eating pussy requires being sensitive to what the girl reacts to.
Originally Posted by Louigi
Keyzer Soze's Avatar
Can see the merit in the post so far, hope we can get a lady or two to share their thoughts. Never too old to learn................:licklips :
Ms Francisca's Avatar
Eating pussy like a champ requires being sensitive to what the girl reacts to.

I agree! EVERY woman is different. The key is to make the lady comfortable enough to tell you what she likes.

The coup is to insert your finger, or two...

I disagree. Follow your own advice n be sensitive to what a girl reacts to. The coup is to make a lady comfortable enough to tell you what she likes. I do not like to be fingered, not to mention it causes yeast infections n bacterial vaginosis. An expensive trip to the Dr if those fingers are not cleaned properly

The idea of sucking on the lips is lame!
Disagree. Some women like their lips sucked. Again, Follow your own advice n be sensitive to what a girl reacts to..
Originally Posted by Louigi
Men seem to think there r "rules" to sex... There r NO RULES. Everyone is different.

If you REALLY want to be a good lover, you have to be comfortable with the person you r with. Find an ATF n talk about it...
CrimsonValkyrie's Avatar
I would have to agree. No cookie cutter. My SO loves to have her lips sucked and tongued. She also loves dato and finger stimulation if you are not too rough doing it. She also does not like direct clit stimulation until after she is nice & warmed up. Conversely I have known women that love clit stimulation to some degree right away and some that if you finger or lick incorrectly it is all over. Thanks man. I like this thread. Would love to hear more women chime in.
I have many satisfied partners. Just ask 'em lol!!
sms918's Avatar
great thread, I'm always looking to get better at daty. one of my favorites.

I'm honest, if I say I can go for a long time, it's my tongue I'm talking about.
There is no "right way"....every woman is different. How about starting with the art of conversation.....
Guys can be too rough when they don't know what the fuck they are doing down there... I also hate when guys are sloppy with DATY... Holy fuck, keep your fucking saliva in your mouth fucker... You're not a dog and my vagina is not a water bowl.

The two finger massaging technique while licking clit gently is very enjoyable... If sexual partner knows how to do it correctly.
wheels69's Avatar
Guys can be too rough when they don't know what the fuck they are doing down there... I also hate when guys are sloppy with DATY... Holy fuck, keep your fucking saliva in your mouth fucker... You're not a dog and my vagina is not a water bowl.: Originally Posted by XOXO Karla
lol ...differant strokes for differant folks
manuatu's Avatar
Great thread and one that will be beneficial for all parties involved. I too love pleasing and being pleased.
JohnnyYanks's Avatar
... keep your fucking saliva in your mouth fucker... You're not a dog and my vagina is not a water bowl. Originally Posted by XOXO Karla
Awesome. Thank you.
Candi Staxx's Avatar
GREAT THREAD


Although I cant agree that there's a "way to eat pussy", as MsFrancisca pointed out, THERE ARE NO RULES TO SEX!

However Louigi you do have some really good pointers so far!!! I will be adding some shortly I think are important to re-remind men of..
Candi Staxx's Avatar
I have many satisfied partners. Just ask 'em lol!! Originally Posted by repete offender


Its true