Attention New Ladies or Ladies that remember when they were new and someone offered to help them get verified.....

"Are you ready to get verified"?

Have you or were you approached by any member that made the offer to help you, showed up and after showing you a few things on your computer of laptop asked if you were ready to move to the verification stage and either before...... or even worse..... AFTER you gave yourself to him you came to realize he had no intention of paying for your time?

Your not alone......

It's bad enough that in the life style you have chosen that you will meet predators in the form of pimps. One of the draws to ECCIE is the community supported aspect that makes things less stressful and safer done right. It's pretty disgusting when the members here will want to use you and take advantage of you as well.

It happens all over and it has happened here in San Antonio..... I've heard the story already twice in the last 2 months..... Send me a PM .... When there are enough of you that share to be able to do something about it I'll have some suggestions....

Send me a PM....Email screenshots of texts and forward emails and PMs.... tell me the story........

If you don't want to tell me tell somoenone you trust that can help..... Get it out there..

Maybe you did not even realize you were getting hustled...... Maybe you did and you were just too embarrassed at the time....

I don't expect any to share publicly... Maybe later.... but not up front...

No takers yet? Or are the exchanges strictly in the back channels for now?

No takers yet? Or are the exchanges strictly in the back channels for now? Originally Posted by Beagle

Come on now...... We know from previous forrays into this subject matter that the ladies can lose business by speaking out about stuff like this....The guys that pull this shit are popular normally and no one would normally thing they would..

I will give San Antonio credit for having ladies that standup and speak out more than other cities and if/when this gets discussed publicly it would be great to get them posting...

shame about the predators, an opinion

1. a friend let a client help her with her computer and he basically stalked her with it. put programs on it, and her phone. she had to get a new computer and phone. change passwords on hobby sites.
DO NOT LET ANYONE HAVE YOUR PHONE OR COMPUTER OR PASSWORDS.

I know not the same but be careful.

2. I only ever offer to help providers get verified or onto sites after I've seen them and I think they should be. I also always ask or send pm asking if they like reviews. I don't always write them, but wouldn't write one for a provider who is utr.

To me, it's a two way street, your helping them but their helping you. Reputation-wise. It was near the beginning on my time here when a provider after a session explained the hobby to me and helped me get verified and on sites, and I still use her advice about hobby.

Someone helps you AFTER you've paid, or AFTER been paid, it's helping

Someone offers to help INSTEAD of paying, or in EXCHANGE for paying
* there's this african prince that needs helps transferring money to america and he needs your help and bank account number
*there's ocean front property in arizona (george strait fan)
*you've won a 1 million dollars, you just need to pay the taxes first
and for the hobbyist
*click on this link for hot women in your area for free

Some Providers offer review specials or discounts if they want help sometimes, but usually from established hobbyists so they be verified faster, same way "Newbie" hobbyist won't be able to see certain providers until they are verified enough. But both sides are aware of situation, not one trying to advantage of other.

I know topic is about the predators, I was trying to state good and bad
yea this probably too far off topic, sorry

I guess I'll be the first.... Shout out to JJ ((waving hand)) excellent job at being a "mod" you conduct yourself role well.... You want me to tell them or you wanna be the first?

***kiddos on closing the alert that placed me in the middle of it. Don't you think the way the forum went "horribly bad" oh I don't know 3 months ago it should have closed! It's funny though I don't think anyone knows but you actually met me and spent a good amount of time with me and usually your pretty good at putting your opinion out if you know the person. You've done it before. did you even remotely feel that I would be associated with a pimp or scam on eccie with another account? Hmmmm I'm pretty sure from what it appeared to me you liked my personality I'm sure if you felt weird about me it would have been said "IJS" but to close the alert ending it with basically "oh wanna bully bash also discredit some one open a thread!" REALLY ?!?!? Who does that. But of course no one knew you knew me only well the ones that got involved ((cough cough)) it's our personal staff secret

OH YEAH IF ANYONE THINKS VOICES THERE OPINION ON WHAT I JUST SAID IS A GOOD IDEA I WOULD STOP RIGHT BEFORE YOU HIT THE KEY CAUSE YOU DONT WANNA DISCREDIT ME. IT WOULD BE VERY EMBARRASSING CAUSE WE ALL KNEW WHAT HAPPENED WITH GFX AND JUMPING SIDES TO EARLY.

Oh just FYI
JJ WANTED ME TO WELL GET VERIFIED FOR FREE. Forgot to mention that oh wait we don't I guess since I was made to feel like I was a lair. But hey no hush money just a verification 24hrs later and never brought up again

I'm sorry but I got lost reading posts 6 & 7. Will someone PM me the cypher key?

I guess I'll be the first.... Shout out to JJ ((waving hand)) excellent job at being a "mod" you conduct yourself role well.... You want me to tell them or you wanna be the first?

***kiddos on closing the alert that placed me in the middle of it. Don't you think the way the forum went "horribly bad" oh I don't know 3 months ago it should have closed! It's funny though I don't think anyone knows but you actually met me and spent a good amount of time with me and usually your pretty good at putting your opinion out if you know the person. You've done it before. did you even remotely feel that I would be associated with a pimp or scam on eccie with another account? Hmmmm I'm pretty sure from what it appeared to me you liked my personality I'm sure if you felt weird about me it would have been said "IJS" but to close the alert ending it with basically "oh wanna bully bash also discredit some one open a thread!" REALLY ?!?!? Who does that. But of course no one knew you knew me only well the ones that got involved ((cough cough)) it's our personal staff secret

OH YEAH IF ANYONE THINKS VOICES THERE OPINION ON WHAT I JUST SAID IS A GOOD IDEA I WOULD STOP RIGHT BEFORE YOU HIT THE KEY CAUSE YOU DONT WANNA DISCREDIT ME. IT WOULD BE VERY EMBARRASSING CAUSE WE ALL KNEW WHAT HAPPENED WITH GFX AND JUMPING SIDES TO EARLY. Originally Posted by iamsummer

Oh just FYI
JJ WANTED ME TO WELL GET VERIFIED FOR FREE. Forgot to mention that oh wait we don't I guess since I was made to feel like I was a lair. But hey no hush money just a verification 24hrs later and never brought up again Originally Posted by iamsummer

WHAT IN THE WIDE, WIDE, WORLD OF SPORTS IS GOING ON HERE?
Holly Shit... is it almost FEBRUARY?

I'm sorry but I got lost reading posts 6 & 7. Will someone PM me the cypher key? Originally Posted by Rover14

Really Rover? You can't tell what she is saying?

Your comments are an example of why some ladies suffer in silence rather than speaking up. She has a story and others may as well. They should not have to deal with people getting ugly from the onset.... If it doesn't become clearer perhaps someone else will explain it to you.

I hear it all the time when I bring it up myself... Why can't the ladies step up for themselves.....

Well.... your post is an example of why.

Um sorry but I agree with rover she obviously has got a gripe with someone but I.can't figure out wth is going on either lol

I guess I'll be the first.... Shout out to JJ ((waving hand)) excellent job at being a "mod" you conduct yourself role well.... You want me to tell them or you wanna be the first?

***kiddos on closing the alert that placed me in the middle of it. Don't you think the way the forum went "horribly bad" oh I don't know 3 months ago it should have closed! It's funny though I don't think anyone knows but you actually met me and spent a good amount of time with me and usually your pretty good at putting your opinion out if you know the person. You've done it before. did you even remotely feel that I would be associated with a pimp or scam on eccie with another account? Hmmmm I'm pretty sure from what it appeared to me you liked my personality I'm sure if you felt weird about me it would have been said "IJS" but to close the alert ending it with basically "oh wanna bully bash also discredit some one open a thread!" REALLY ?!?!? Who does that. But of course no one knew you knew me only well the ones that got involved ((cough cough)) it's our personal staff secret

OH YEAH IF ANYONE THINKS VOICES THERE OPINION ON WHAT I JUST SAID IS A GOOD IDEA I WOULD STOP RIGHT BEFORE YOU HIT THE KEY CAUSE YOU DONT WANNA DISCREDIT ME. IT WOULD BE VERY EMBARRASSING CAUSE WE ALL KNEW WHAT HAPPENED WITH GFX AND JUMPING SIDES TO EARLY. Originally Posted by iamsummer

Oh just FYI
JJ WANTED ME TO WELL GET VERIFIED FOR FREE. Forgot to mention that oh wait we don't I guess since I was made to feel like I was a lair. But hey no hush money just a verification 24hrs later and never brought up again Originally Posted by iamsummer

i have to agree with the old man in post #8

Same here. Whatever her story is I have no idea. Stating that is not trying to shut a provider up. It is just pointing out that we have no idea what she was trying to say.

My guess was this is a jj thread