The GangBnag....

Secret_Amore's Avatar
How does that shit work???? I have seen request for GBs and been requested for a GB but really I need and full and deep understanding of this activity cause I just don't....I guess comprehend..like I get the idea but not the practice? and I don't want porn to be my only reference for this, as we ALL know using porn as a reference for many activities can be flawed. So yea give me some perspective

there are many sexual adventure I have yet to explore mostly cause I'm a big ol pansy...ex: Anal, girl on girl, eating Pussy, knife play, hot wax, 3somes of ANY variation, gang bangs...ect

I guess I kinda wanna know from those who've had that experience what it was like...

as porn is my only point of reference for such a thing from what I seen it's a scenario where the girl has to try and please several (i mean more then 2) men at the same time. This IMO seem like a very high stress situation where all the pressure is on the lady. and in vids it basically just shows one chick having a bunch of penises shove in her at one time. this does not look fun, particularly pleasurable and very stressful on the body...BUT I cannot imagine this remaining a popular practice if men couldn't find women to participate in this (other wise it'd just be a gay orgy) so CLEARLY I'm missing something
If you go to pornhub and search for gangbangs, you'll find some decent examples.

My advice. If you're going to do a GB, then you need to set clear boundaries (condoms, no anal, DP, etc...) before. You also need to have a guy there you trust to monitor that your wishes are followed.

You won't be able to make sure condoms are used, you won't be able to grab your bottle of water or a towel, etc.

GBs can be extremely erotic and empowering in the right situations.
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Unfortunately you have only the media for reference. It's more about a lady's fantasy often.. and more often the lady is the one that initiates the process. Assuming you've had the misfortune of being with one or more "dates" that didn't satisfy you, this happens in the real world too... and sometimes it's just the "nasty, use, me, I wanna be a slut," fantasy..
in actuality, it doesn't play out that way.. anyone I've known of (first hand info), the gentlemen have been exactly that, gentlemen.
Typically they will ask permission to play with you, (in spite of the perceived attitude), and do their best to make you a happy lady.
Trust me, it's harder to find willing, capable, males, than a horny, hot, vixen with an unfulfilled bucket list... many men are case examples of "performance anxiety".. and another point, usually it's not "please them all at the same time" as much as everyone, eventually has a good time.. or I could be completely wrong..
And of course, ESPECIALLY with that type play, condoms are considered a "MUST HAVE" and anal is off the table.

If you'd like to fill some of those "sexual adventures" you'd like to cross off the list.... pm me.. I know a lady that could help..
I would be interested in a GB with no anal, not up there yet but never knew how to start something like this but yes someone should be there that you can trust that if something God forbids goes wrong they can assist.
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I would be interested in a GB with no anal, not up there yet but never knew how to start something like this but yes someone should be there that you can trust that if something God forbids goes wrong they can assist.
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GB and orgies are common in the swinger lifestyle and I've never seen anal involved. That's more for porn...
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GB in hobby DP is the preferred. The girls that don't do DP usually have little to no turn out.
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GB in hobby DP is the preferred. The girls that don't do DP usually have little to no turn out. Originally Posted by full metal jackoff
that may be true for "the hobby" but not otherwise.. DP is NOT the norm in the civie world GB, (depending on WHICH DP you're referring to, oral + is rampant.)
GB in hobby DP is the preferred. The girls that don't do DP usually have little to no turn out. Originally Posted by full metal jackoff
That's probably true if guys are paying. In their minds, some guys want to think if they are paying, they should be able to do whatever they like.

I'm going to say, though, I know of plenty of swinger GB where the singles guys paid and there was no anal of any kind and everyone was happy.

But that's the difference between Single Swinger Guys and Hobby guys. The swinger guys have more realistic expectations, in my opinion.

DP and anal are extremely hard to orchestrate in a GB situation with non professional guys...no matter how easy it looks in porn.
well I would like to try a GB with no anal and see how the out come is.
that may be true for "the hobby" but not otherwise.. DP is NOT the norm in the civie world GB, (depending on WHICH DP you're referring to, oral + is rampant.) Originally Posted by nuglet
100% true. Ive seen 100s...only one Double Vag DP, no anal and def no anal/vag DP
Secret_Amore's Avatar
it's REALLY sad that i misspelled gangbang and that's the title of this tread. like do I look stupid or what?

but yea the porn I've seen it's always like 3-5 guys and there's a guy in her mouth, her vag, and her butt all at the same time. or a double vag thing. which is why I say it looks like a lot of stress on the body

or it's 2 guys she sucks one off while the other does her from behind or underneath, whatever. that scenario looks more acomplishable
it's REALLY sad that i misspelled gangbang and that's the title of this tread. like do I look stupid or what?

but yea the porn I've seen it's always like 3-5 guys and there's a guy in her mouth, her vag, and her butt all at the same time. or a double vag thing. which is why I say it looks like a lot of stress on the body

or it's 2 guys she sucks one off while the other does her from behind or underneath, whatever. that scenario looks more acomplishable Originally Posted by Secret_Amore
ok! Since you asked and I'm waiting for my cab, lol.

Usually it's one girl and 4-5 guys...

There's a lot of doggie while BBBJ with anoth guy getting a HJ, then maybe the last one licking or stroking your breasts. Then there might be reverse cowgirl with BBBJCIM, 2 HJ. Then swapping places and same things with different positions. When guys get ready to cum, it's usually CIM or on face or tits. Then you swallow or wipe off and keep going. It usually flows quite well if the guys are confident. That's why swinger guys are WAY better than your average hobbyist.

Hobbyists get all freaked out if there is another sword nearby. Or god forbid BBBJx2. Most bobbyist think it's not like hardcore(rough) porn, but it's not really. Usually it's VERY apparent the lady is in charge.

Once you have guys who are comfortable, you could try something more hardcore, but that is NOT the way to start...

If you haven't done MFFM before, that's an even better starting place.
Shayla84 I would be interested in your gangbang
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  • Loxly
  • 01-30-2014, 09:33 PM
it's REALLY sad that i misspelled gangbang and that's the title of this tread. like do I look stupid or what?

but yea the porn I've seen it's always like 3-5 guys and there's a guy in her mouth, her vag, and her butt all at the same time. or a double vag thing. which is why I say it looks like a lot of stress on the body

or it's 2 guys she sucks one off while the other does her from behind or underneath, whatever. that scenario looks more acomplishable Originally Posted by Secret_Amore

Was wondering about the spelling myself. Thought maybe this was some far eastern thing like B'nag G'Ban from the Karmasuta.

Did this once to get it of my Chudda Woulda Shudda list. 11 other guys while husband did video/pics. No anal but had a bukkake finish. Totally uneventful for me and a few couldn't operate in a "shared environment". Possibly because there was no "fluffer".
well once I get enough guys I will do one I have you and another that pmed me so 2-3 more guys and its a date, I am multi talented I am sure we could figure it out (hehe)