my wife used to give me head....

pickupkid's Avatar
How do get her to give me head again?
How do get her to give me head again? Originally Posted by pickupkid
Two things that will guarantee you NOT to receive head:

1. Not being clean
2. Not eating pussy

Other than that, we need more specifics about your relationship dynamic to give advice
Slip It In's Avatar
Tell her you know where to find hookers that will. She'll either do it, or kick you to the curb, then you can go get hookers guilt free.
CrimsonValkyrie's Avatar
Eating pussy works. Being clean works. Is there a reason she does not give you head?
Precious_b's Avatar
If it isn't the reasons she listed,
I'd just go see Yummie Marie.

She is indeed Yummy.
universalenergy's Avatar
Did she quit given you head after you got married?
Doglegg's Avatar
How do get her to give me head again? Originally Posted by pickupkid
Ask?

Yeah, well it doesn't help when I ask mine either.

It doesn't even help when I ask the SO to try something really different like saying yes rather than no.
Dice man1983's Avatar
Well try asking her or you can give her a few drinks get her turned on and whip it out in the heat of the moment, then say well it's not going to suck itself. This should work. I know how to treat a lady
flinde's Avatar
Get a new wife.

Seriously, go into the living room during the day. Tell her -not ask - TELL her to drop to her knees and suck your cock. Tell her what a nasty slut she is while fucking her face. Paint that face. Say thanks. Zip up and go about your business. If this doesnt happen, then get a new wife.

Ladies feel free to chime in on the quality of this flinde expert marital advice.
Hmmm... Maybe plan something romantic for valentines... Get her something nice, perform some amazing oral on her first, then lay back (she should return the favor) if she doesn't, then just ask! If I had a husband/boyfriend who did this for me, he would get an AMAZING bj as thanks :-) good luck!
BoomShakaLaka's Avatar
Put a cherry on top
If every wife gave BBBJCIMNQNS, the hobby would not be half of what it is today.
SpiceItUp's Avatar
You've got to communicate to her how much you enjoy it and how sexy it is, and that you're not content with the current situation. Be hurt and confused by her lack of attention rather than angry and accusatory. But yeah, only communication will open the door, hopefully she walks through it.

If you're not throwing it out there regularly as something you want maybe because you don't want to rock the boat, then frankly that's part of the reason you're not getting it in the first place. We get what we settle for oftentimes. Especially in a case like this where she used to do it but doesn't anymore, it's not like you're asking her to cross personal boundaries, e.g. Anal or fetishes.

Of course this assumes she cares what you want or need in the first place. If not, well that's a different discussion.
Still Looking's Avatar
Turn off ALL credit cards. Tell her how to get them turned back on! Simple!
bigjimt52's Avatar
Wedding cake and rings has always been a major reason for wives to not give bjs....